I hear about a lot of us guys that seem to last for around 15 to 30 minutes. Well, I seem to have a problem:

My average sexual duration is 3.5 hours. I've gone as long as 5 hours, and as short as 30 minutes, but I only did the 30 minutes once (and it took me by surprise... so much so that I started laughing as soon as I realized I was about to cum). The shortest, otherwise, is about 1.5 hours.

This is very odd for me, because I can cum in literally 3 minutes during masturbation. So how is this a problem? My girlfriend hardly ever lets me finish. After about 2.5 hours, she says she has to stop because it starts to hurt.

So my question is how long is average, and what can I do to shorten my time?

wow

Why not just pull out and masturbate if you want to finish so badly?

The broad can still have the semen, if she wants.

Well you don't have to brag, man *tears fall*!!!

Serious though guvna, maybe you aren't getting sex the way you want it with this girl.

I'd go until she has cum a few times then finish myself off.

pop some ecstasy

quote:Originally posted by flak47:

pop some ecstasy

Won't that make you last longer still?

Try more foreplay? Do something that will generally make you more horny, then you should squirt quicker?

Not meant to flame you.... but do you actually feel physically attracted to you girl.... if yes.... i haven't got a clue

I only last about 1-2min if im lucky. Im 15 and i've had sex over 80 times and this still happens. wtf!?

10-30 minutes depends on the day

-warweed12

do you take any prescription or non-prescription medications? my good friend takes zyban and one of the side effects is "prolonged ejaculation" he has the EXACT same problem and always tells me how he can never bust when he does stuff with his gf. even masturbation takes a while for him. sounds similiar to your situation except for the masturbation part?

check side effects of current prescriptions your taking if appliciple

quote:Originally posted by Son of Northern Darkness:

Im 15 and i've had sex over 80 times



God damn boy

do it in the butt,

yours or hers



ps - im asian

i have premature ejeculation. i usually cum all over and call it a night.

Maybe she's not moving right for you. Are you the only one putting forth any work? I've had this happen when the girl is inexperienced and either just lays there or doensn't know how to move. The best thing you can do to help your sex in a relationship is communicate about what feels good and what feels better. Without it you both could be wasting each other's time.

quote:Originally posted by teamtiger:

you both could be wasting each other's time.

Ha. Wasting her time, you mean =P

Yeah, I'll try it anyway.

quote:Originally posted by Son of Northern Darkness:

I only last about 1-2min if im lucky. Im 15 and i've had sex over 80 times and this still happens. wtf!?



yo man wer abt s in NI r u from?

Instead of umping deeper have the head of your penis really near the opening of the vagina, this means you will be stimulated where you are more sensitive.

I feel for you man. Here's how I learned to cope with this 'problem'. you'll soon find it a blessing in disguise. First thing you should do is pick up a copy of the Kama Sutra. Learn Tantric Sex; then, try a multitude of positions -- have fun with sex.

Also, it's no big deal to stop after she gets her cookies. eventually it'll become a goal of hers to get you to cum; getting her off even more.

Or, you could marathon it, pleasing her with orgasm after sweet orgasm.

It seemed pretty psychological for me but a lot of that will be revealed in your readings of Tantra and the Kama Sutra.

Best of luck!

i have this problem, too. the more i like the girl, the longer the sex lasts (up to 4 hours). i was with this girl once and we were fucking for about 3 hours and i couldn't cum and we both passed out. at 7 the next morning i realize what happened so i wake her up and finish. obviously good stuff!

in my case, sex talk and some general freakiness on the girls part goes a long way in boosting the quality of sex and helping to speed up the process. girls who just lay there make me sick. 420...