my gf isnt into sex*... what can i do to make her change her mind?? keep in mind that i am 16, she is 15, and we've both never done ANYTHING at all...

*sex meaning bj's etc, vaginal sex can wait a bit longer ;-)

This may sounds bad, but slowly pressure her. Or alcohol to take advantage. But if she doesn't want to, you may just have to live with that.



Shek

dont pressure her, just do what ur doing and slowly pressure her like dont let her notice it. feel while u kiss and that does help for awhile if she pushes away dont keep doing it well tahts what i do

Dude. Shes still 15. Most girls arent ready to do anything sexual until they get 17 or 18.

If you really want it that bad, find another girl will please you how you like.

Uh, forgive me, maybe I'm a bit dim.

Isn't a major part of a relationship sex?

Aside from physical attraction, aren't you just really good friends then? Which isn't a bad thing. But if you're really interested in someone, that way, and you're in a relationship, sex should come naturally.

Right?

^^ICP has it.

I still don't get why people waste time trying to change someone. Every moment wasted thusly is a moment not spent seeking more amiable company.

Teen years are for playing the field. Play ball!

Show a bit of respect for your girl and respect her decision. Get over yourself man. But really just keep pushing her buttons so to speak and she'll be yours. All girls a different, they all want sex its just a matter of when.

well, i feel stupid now...

quote:Originally posted by IcEColdPlaYA:

Dude. Shes still 15. Most girls arent ready to do anything sexual until they get 17 or 18.



wot fucking world do you live on......?

if its her frist time,she migth be afired that it'll hurt or your basiclly just afther a fuck then you'll fuck off and bragg bout it....

or she migth have had a pretty nasty experanace in the past......

either way the last thing you should do is try to get her to channge her mind about it don't worry she'll eventely want to untill then just carry on with the heavy petting.

Dude...She's 15.

Ask her about it but if she isn't up for it then don't pressure her into anything for this is wrong.

Just take your time and bear with her, sooner or later she'll be ready and you'll get what you want.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a bad guy... I don't need the sex. I was just more or less seeking your opinion on the matter. And i got it, thanks.

Shek! Shame on you. You karma just decreased 10 points.

Are you sure she doesn't just want it but is afraid to make the first move. Why don't you make the first move (without the alcohol).

i've got 2 words to say: rape

Kill yourself, you sick motherfucker.

quote:Originally posted by Aphelion Corona:

Shek! Shame on you. You karma just decreased 10 points.

Are you sure she doesn't just want it but is afraid to make the first move. Why don't you make the first move (without the alcohol).

I guess getting his girlfriend drunk and basically date raping her worked for him.

Why wouldn't you suggest what works?

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

^^ICP has it.

Teen years are for playing the field. Play ball!



Oh really....

Hey Cindy im waiting for you

:P

-warweed12

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Dude...She's 15.



whats wrong with 15 ?? i have fucked a 15 year old many times and vice versa ... and im older then that ..

-warweed12

and u yanks say the brits are sexually repressed wot the fucks wrong with having sex at 15....?

every did and does......

quote:Originally posted by jiscuit:

i've got 2 words to say: rape

you are one sorry fuck.

quote:Originally posted by warweed12:

Hey Cindy im waiting for you



The "edumacation" just isn't cutting it, huh?

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

The "edumacation" just isn't cutting it, huh?



i try some times ... but it just doesn't help

-warweed12

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

Uh, forgive me, maybe I'm a bit dim.

Isn't a major part of a relationship sex?

Aside from physical attraction, aren't you just really good friends then? Which isn't a bad thing. But if you're really interested in someone, that way, and you're in a relationship, sex should come naturally.

Right?

jah.I was thinking about this a while back.

oh man i dont wanna go to skool on mondaaaay. aww. stephanina make me feel better.

-Fa'ad

quote:Originally posted by jiscuit:

i've got 2 words to say: rape

That's one word. http://www.spectre-command.com/smiles/loser.gif" width="90" height="90 (http://www.spectre-command.com/smiles/loser.gif" width="90" height="90)

This may sound cruel but....Drop her seriously I was with a girl for 4 months told her I love her she says I'm celebate...Clever waiting to metion that after I said the L word. You should ask your girl if she's celebate.

quote:Originally posted by Kikey_Kikeowitz:

I guess getting his girlfriend drunk and basically date raping her worked for him.

Why wouldn't you suggest what works?



What the fuck is the matter with you Kikey? I don't get what the fuck you have against me. Why do you have to fucking hold grudges when we debate over stuff? If we debate on something that's good. No need to be all fucking pissed at me constantly.



Shek

quote:Originally posted by Aphelion Corona:

Shek! Shame on you. You karma just decreased 10 points.



Who the fuck are you? Look, I was giving an example. Most girls will like sex once they start to have it. Some girls need a slight push, it's not rape.

Before you go bitching at me, ask yourself a question. "Will Shek care?".



Shek

[This message has been edited by Prince Charming (edited 09-13-2003).]

I may be going on a limb here but...dump her.

Any girl (14+) that is not into sex doesnt deserve a boyfriend. This is the year 2003 for christ sakes. Im surprised you can find girls that don't want to get fucked. Maybe it's just me, but I don't let that shit ride. Your just wasting your time and money. Your buying her all this shit and she is playing you, so think about it. Your not going to get anything in return, other than the 'I have a girlfriend' status.

Do what you like, but think about it.

^Yes! A new member that can spell correctly and isn't a complete idiot. Were like 1/1200 now!



Shek

quote:Originally posted by Prince Charming:

What the fuck is the matter with you Kikey? I don't get what the fuck you have against me.

You remind me too much of myself, back when I was an annoying little shit who thought he knew everything.

I really despise who I was, and all the shit I did back then. You're practically the embodiment of me three years ago.

Believe it or not, it's because I don't want to see anyone else turn out like me.

I guess maybe a bit more background info woulda kept you guys from guessing... She's not celebate, and she's not a prude. It's probably just the fact that it's her first time, and she would be nervous. We talk about it a lot, and she just wants to make sure that when she does do it, she'll have no regrets. But she said that about the L word, and last night she told me that... so you never know, maybe i just gotta wait for a coupla months or somethin.