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 #1 
Old 2003-09-06, 23:52
L3d3ni L3d3ni is offline
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Default An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

This girl I was with back in high school contacted me four years after we last spoke. It was an affection as much as you can have one at 18 years old. Seemed like a big thing then.

We were together for 2 and a half years, and I broke up with her like a real dick. I'm not sorry though.

Anyway, she writes and says something along the lines of "I care so much about you, I sent you this to protect you from slightest harm." It was hand written on one of the stories I wrote for her.

She is also giving me these one ring phone calls quite often, but just now I realised it was her.

Thing is, she drove me fucking furious while I was with her. On the other hand, sex was great.

So, should I ignore this? Call? Write? What? What would YOU do?
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Old 2003-09-07, 00:06
GlitterPunk112358 GlitterPunk112358 is offline
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

Stay the fuck away. If you have to do anything, tell her you're not interested. She was probably recently broken up with. She remembers the good times she had with you and she wants to recapture that. She's out of touch with reality and is no one you should be anywhere close to.

[This message has been edited by GlitterPunk112358 (edited 09-07-2003).]
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Old 2003-09-07, 00:07
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

She sounds like a psycho.

"I wrote you this to protect you from harm"? What the hell is that supposed to mean?

Calling and hanging up is just stalker weird.

I used to do that late at night when I had to get in touch with my b/f and didn't want to wake the whole house. But he knew it was the 'signal' to call me back. It wasn't just to dial his number or something.

Uh, I woudn't get involved with a chick I wasn't interested in. The sex might have been great but if she made you furious and calls and hangs up, having sex with her will probably make her more freaky. (In a bad way).
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Old 2003-09-07, 00:22
deadlycindy deadlycindy is offline
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

Ditto and ditto.

Not with a ten-foot pole, dude. This reeks of trouble.
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Old 2003-09-07, 02:02
Armed&Angry Armed&Angry is offline
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

I'll add my vote to the counsel above.
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Old 2003-09-07, 03:33
EyeSore EyeSore is offline
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

she sounds desperate and kind of creepy. seems like she just got her feeling hurt by *something* and now she's trying to grasp at something to keep herself from spinning out. if you do decide to get back with her, she'll be really clingy and will just be weird. i say stay away.
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Old 2003-09-07, 03:39
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

GO FOR IT!

Well, you probably shouldn't, but that's boring just like a thread with everyone in agreement.

-Easy
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Old 2003-09-07, 16:19
L3d3ni L3d3ni is offline
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

Thanks everyone.
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Old 2003-09-07, 19:27
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

She sounds like a "psycho ex girlfriend"...I have one of those!

But it's a little bit of a long time to call you ain't it?!...4 years?!

I'd stay away man.
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Old 2003-09-07, 23:29
dark-easterbunny dark-easterbunny is offline
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Default Re: An ex contacted me after a long time. What to do?

what jesus said in the south park episode about euthanasie (or whatever it's called in english)

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