I know it sounds pathetic but the last time i was with a girl i was horrible at kissing. French kissing and everything, so it hard for me to even get close with another girl because im just embarrased to kiss her so it makes it hard to get any action.

Can anyone give me some tips/solutions to this.

Keep your lips loose, don't open your mouth as if to accommodate a club sandwich, don't drool and don't make "chewing" movements with your jaw.

Those are just my observations on bad kissers.

Otherwise, you have to feel your way around and find your own style. Keep it simple at first.

Cindy got it spot on, its not rocket science so keep to her tips and then just go with the flow. The more you kiss the more intresting it will get and you can try a little bit of change etc.

Just be yourself, and don't use your tounge as if you were bush invading a third world country.

Don't shove your tongue in her mouth (and especially don't leave it there). As Cindy said, relax your mouth, don't open it or close it, just lips slightly parted.

Don't harden your tongue. Basically, just relax. Everything will go well then.

bite her bottom lip lightly. girls think it's hot.

other than that, don't use too much tongue, suck on her lips a little, stay relaxed. if you want to get really into it, put your hand on the back of her head or neck.

The worst kiss I've ever had involved a sort of stiff tongue and a lot of sloshing/swishing/moving around. You definately don't want to be too agressive. On the other hand, the second worst kiss I've ever experienced involved a very floppy tongue that was mostly just sitting there, coupled with squishy lips. I think you want to be firm with the lips, but not too crazy with the tongue. But I could be way the fuck off, as no one has ever told me if I'm a good kisser. stephanina, am I?

When I first started kissing girl properly, I wasn't that great at it.

You have to kiss as many girls as you can and see their reactions, mate!

You'll get the hang of it eventually...I did...And i still get girls phoning me "to see how I am doing" and they still say they miss kissing me!

The more you kiss, the better you'll get matey boy!

Also, if you can handle constructive criticism, ask the girl what was good about it and ask her what could have been better!

They have pretty much covered alot of good tips. But the best tip I can give you is don't think to much just relax and let it happen. If you are trying to think the whole time it won't be natural. If you concentrate to hard and try to remember what to do it won't just flow. That I think is the secret to a good kisser. Just let it flow with the situation, mood, the person you are kissing.

Just go with what feels right at the time but don't be hesitant to try something new like biting her lower lip gently just the thing I can not stress enough is don't think to much just be natural.

Take Care,

Kangy

Bite her lower lip "gently"? Well okay, if you're new at it, but once you're more comfortable with each other, bite it hard. Draw blood. It may hurt some, but in retrospect (or right then and there, if you did it right), it'll turn her on. A little pain only heightens the senses.

-Infrared

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

A little pain only heightens the senses.

-Infrared

that's awesome. i don't like getting my lip bitten hard though, i prefer nails dug into my back or shoulders.

i almost drew blood once. it was funny because we weren't even like doing anything like below-the-belt, we were just making out/necking and she was all like rubbing my boobs and such so I was just sinking my teeth into her lip w/o even thinking about it. Okay, so I didn't draw blood, thus making this post pointless. But whatever. I'm high and it just feels cool to type. yeah. tiping is cool. hehe. hehe.

What's a kiss?

Yes Glitter, you are a good kisser.

EyeSore has given the best advice so far, in my opinon.

quote:Originally posted by snap:

What's a kiss?

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[This message has been edited by Easy Going (edited 09-08-2003).]

People this topic said he needs help kissing. Everyone forgets kissing isn't just the lips. Kissing on the neck and shoulder area, shit I love that feeling it just feels so great when done correctly.

Shit, Painkillers, you're right. I forgot all about other fun things. Kissing around the neck, shoulders, and collarbone is always good. But better than kissing is biting. Between her neck and shoulder, just chomp down and suck. Then when you ease up your grip, just continue to suck and you get a nice big disgusting hickey-bite. And always good, while you do this, is just massaging one or both tits while like gently (or roughly) pinching the nipples. Loads of fun.

don't just bust in there with your tongue and if you gonna do it, that tongue is best to be not stiff and hard, just get in the mood and go with the flow, it's sorta like dancing or soemthing hard to explain, but what everyone else said is really really good advice

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Shit, Painkillers, you're right. I forgot all about other fun things. Kissing around the neck, shoulders, and collarbone is always good. But better than kissing is biting. Between her neck and shoulder, just chomp down and suck. Then when you ease up your grip, just continue to suck and you get a nice big disgusting hickey-bite. And always good, while you do this, is just massaging one or both tits while like gently (or roughly) pinching the nipples. Loads of fun.

Yes!! bitting on the neck. Oh God it drives me crazy I could sit for ages with a girl kissing and bitting that whole neck area. Come on somebody else must love the bitting?

quote:Originally posted by Painkillers:

Yes!! bitting on the neck. Oh God it drives me crazy I could sit for ages with a girl kissing and bitting that whole neck area. Come on somebody else must love the bitting?

yes, nipping, biting, sucking, it's all gravy

but serious, it's like friggen estacy

quote:Originally posted by snap:

What's a kiss?

yeah.

What's a kiss. Oh man now im depressed see you later.

quote:Originally posted by Painkillers:

Yes!! bitting on the neck. Oh God it drives me crazy I could sit for ages with a girl kissing and bitting that whole neck area. Come on somebody else must love the bitting?

My girl likes biting a bit much, but whatever... I suppose she does it because she likes being bitten. I've noticed that girls do to who they love what they want done to them in many cases.

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

Yes Glitter, you are a good kisser.

Umm did I miss something here?

Take Care,

Kangy

quote:Originally posted by illKill2112:

Can anyone give me some tips/solutions to this.



Why not tell a girl about your worries. Maybe ask one if they will help you out. That way you get a night of kissing, You don't have to be embarrased, and at the end of it you'll be a pro, she'll be all horny, then you can have another few hours practising sex.