remember that girl who i asked out way bak? i havent seen her for ages, now everytime she gets on the bus she asks for a hug.. and i give her one and we'd talk a tiny bit, not alot coz the bus is shit environment to caht up a girl...esspecially with all those baboons hooting in the back ground. i really wanna ask her to just hang out sometime but she might see it as a date or some shit. Also she might be relunctant becoz everyone's like ohhh "##### likes #####" and it's vise versa and she might not enjoy all that and end up avoiding me?

argh i hate girls! so confusing and complicated.

Mate have a party and invite her and her friends, invite your mates too THEN get a little liquour flowing and the conversation will roll right along

dont bother talking on the bus, the bus is for fun...leave the chatting up for the partys!

jimbo's idea about the party was good. But the most important thing you need to learn is to not give a shit what other people say or think. If you like this girl who cares if people are talking about it. Why should that make any difference. I know it is hard because from the bus, and a few other things, I take it that you are still in high school and at that age peer pressure is at it's worst. But not just with women but with everything in general, you need to just learn to say "fuck it, i don't care what they think" you don't want to look back on your highschool years and think "man i really wished i asked her out but i didn't because i was scared what my peers would say or think"

Just go for it. If you like her then ask her out. If someone is immature enough to giggle, laugh, or talk about it then fuck them. do what you want to do because you want to do it not because of what you think your peers will think of you.

Take Care,

Kangy

Or... I assume you ride this same bus home?

Then, just get off at her stop and walk with her a bit... then you can chat it up all you want.

As usual, Kangy is right. Don't give a flying fuck what anyone besides you might say. Seriously, just totally be yourself and act as mentally cool as you can because really, caring what other people think of you is not as important as society lets on. If she's smart and worth hanging out with, she'll think the same way. If she's hugging you, then there is some form of connection between you two already. Just steer a conversation towards "what are your plans for the weekend?" Or something similar and go from there.

quote:Originally posted by Thehurricane:

i really wanna ask her to just hang out sometime but she might see it as a date or some shit.

This is a good thing. Ambiguity and confusion can be your best friends early in a relationship. Do try to avoid embarrassing her on the bus, though. You don't have to care what others think, but it is too early to assume she feels the same way.

-Easy

hang out with her and some mutual friends

Nothing to add, just an aside.. a couple of you said not to give a fuck what other people think, and that's all well and good. From what he's saying, though, it's the girl who needs to hear that. If this is going to affect them both, he has to be aware of how she might react to the potentials.

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

Nothing to add, just an aside.. a couple of you said not to give a fuck what other people think, and that's all well and good. From what he's saying, though, it's the girl who needs to hear that. If this is going to affect them both, he has to be aware of how she might react to the potentials.

thanx for all the replys and esspecially spiffy. sorry i didn't make it really clear but i think it's her that's getting effected by the hooting and shit. anyways im just call her! talkto her. tune her for a bit and then talk about that new movie and ask if she wants to see it. thanx all. but yea im also not gonna give a fuk to what others say from now on.

The situation you described is not her fault... although it does involve her, which gives you a right to be frustrated with her and say she sucks (which she might, later.) Anyway, just tell her what you told us- that you'd like to hang out with her sometime, without everyone pissing you off.

God, Totse moves slow at 1am.