Has any 100% heterosexual male ever said "no sorry baby i think i'm gonna go home without banging the shit outta you all night" when a female wants to fuck said male? Just a question i'm throwing out . . .

A number of things might or might not for that matter cross your mind like, does she have a hairy pussy? some dudes including myself are scared of those and may become "turned off" but will proceed if horney enough i guess pussy is pussy, another factor might be is she a slut? is she just using me for my manhood? another is shit is she gonna turn psycho after i bone her and either split or fall asleep without cuddling first . . . another would have to be shit she might be a slut and have some dirty dirties down there, "I don't want any part of that shit" so let me know is there a scenario where a straight male might say "NO" to a sure fuck.

I haven't specifically said those words, but I've dodged a couple of women I had no intention of touching under any circumstances when they started hitting on me. It's never reached the point where they were that blatant about what they wanted, though.

It seems you've answered your own question. I have done exactly that when while I was being hit on by an extremley good looking girl, I was told by someone else who was there that she was putting out a distinct odor. I took that into mind as we sat in my car and made out a bit. Then just flat out told her that no....I was not gonna do her. I of course told her some made up shit about not having a rubber or something along those lines. You cannot simply say, You know what? That guy in there told me you had a stank ass pussy. That would devastate any girl. You may end up getting the shit smacked outta ya too.

Yes, several times. Like Spiffy said, I did not say what you wrote. But I have refused sex from women I was attracted to. I once waited a couple months to sleep with my girlfriend when she wanted to.

BTW, it is good to say no every once in a while even if you don't want to. You will completely lose control otherwise.

-Easy

I've turned down one rediculously drunk woman who I knew to be a stinking whore.

I call that good judgement.

i've had to turn down sex, oral sex, and *otherwise* from my ex. she was really horny, stopped by my house (as we're still friends) and tried to demand sex from me. i said no, and started a conversation with someone else online.

she then tried to unzip my pants to give me head, in an attempt to get me to crumble. i still refused, and she literally grabbed my hands and straddled me on my computer chair.

i forced her off, and asked her to leave. eventually, she did give up and went elsewhere for sex. sometimes i wish i gave in though... then again, i had just started dating my current girl. being faithful sucks sometimes.

When I was 16 I passed up on a chance with this chick from school.

*kicks self repeatedly for 4 years*

once, I asked a girl at the bar if the DJ plays music like Billy Idol and Rod Stewart all the time. She asked me where I´m from. After my reply, she said we should go to her apartment because it´s right around the corner. I refused, don´t ask me why ...

i said no like.. the day before ... i don't know... somewhere this weekend.. to my girl.. just wasn't in the mood

quote:Originally posted by dark-easterbunny:

i said no like.. the day before ... i don't know... somewhere this weekend.. to my girl.. just wasn't in the mood

I've done that same thing multiple times. Every now and then I'm just not in the mood for it. Not to mention my girl is a fucking nympho so she wants it EVERY time we are alone, I actaully turn it down quite a bit more then I care to admit. There are alos other girls I know want to hump the shit outta me, but I just dun persue them, I'm sure I'm not the only one that does that.

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