Ok, I'm a 16 year old guy. I have fetishes for diapers and spanking (dont ask me why) and I cant get aroused over anything but those. Trust me I'm not a poedophile or gay. I do like girls bodies and all just not aroused by them, so I don't know how I'm ever going to have sex. Can anyone help me out here? Thanks.

Spanking is a pretty common fetish. If your chick is into it, you've got no problem. Also, a relationship doesn't start with sex. When you really love a girl and she loves you, she won't mind a little spanking for your pleasure. I don't know about diapers

I like being spanked too.i also have a fetish for pierced pussies and asain girls. 'nuff said.

quote:Originally posted by blaster123:

Ok, I'm a 16 year old guy. I have fetishes for diapers and spanking (dont ask me why) and I cant get aroused over anything but those. Trust me I'm not a poedophile or gay. I do like girls bodies and all just not aroused by them, so I don't know how I'm ever going to have sex. Can anyone help me out here? Thanks.

get a hooker, put on a diaper, and spank her. The game is quite simple really.

For the most part, I'm pretty open-minded towards sex. However, I would feel like a complete, unsexy, asshole if you wanted me to wear a diaper.

Then again, I've never been asked to where one, so I don't know exactly how I'd feel. But this being a hypothetical situation, I'd have to say that it would be very awkward.

That's just me though. I've seen some pretty crazy fetish sites and shops and you can actually buy baby clothes in adult sizes. It's kind of disturbing, but that's my opinion.

Spanking is nothing. It's kind of like a norm nowadays. I know my exused to get into it. Just make sure the girl is enjoying the pain and not cringing in fright of you.

Ok cool, the diapers thing is just sort of a thing I keep to myself, I would never ask a girl to do anything to do with them if she didn't want to.

Just one more thing, I have never been able to jack off, I can fiddle around a little and get an erection pretty simply but can't get myself to cum. I don't think this is normal for a 15 year old is it?

Thanks.

You could always be a smooth mother fucker and say to your girl "Hey baby...Why not put that diaper on and let me spank yo ass!!!"

Jeez man...You're demented!!!

Get a knife and cut a hole in your teddy bear and fuck that man! Strap a diaper on while you're at it, I heard it does wonders for reputation.

Oh yeah, and about the jerkin off thing, get some lube and lube that motherfucker up!

If no lube, go to the shower and get some shampoo!

Definitely not normal...

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lotion works well too and shit there's nothin wrong with a good spankin

a lot of people are into diapers and whatnot. it's a bit deviant, but i've heard of worse.

spanking is pretty common, most people either like it, or don't.

not being able to get off, when you're 16, is pretty weird for a guy. you said you can get it up, why not go to a fetish site, find chicks in diapers, and go all out?

quote:Just make sure the girl is enjoying the pain and not cringing in fright of you.

that is necessarily a bad thing is it?

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Ah yes, infantilism. Back when I did phone sex for a living, this is one of the things that stumped me. I had no idea what to say to the guy.

Here's some info (http://understanding.infantilism.org/what.html) that might lead to a broader understanding of your fetishes.

ive used shampoo to lube it up, but i dont get any enjoyment or anything out of doin it, and as i said nothing happens. so all u do is hold it and go back and forth quickly right?

and is it normal to not be turned on by girls naked girls at age 16? (im not turned on by guys either)

quote:Originally posted by Kazz:

get a hooker, put on a diaper, and spank her. The game is quite simple really.

Hahahaha I died reading this. Dude you would be suprised at how many chicks are into what you're into.

im now not at all worried about the spanking thing, and the diapers thing i can keep that to myself

my only concerns now is never been able to jack off, and not being turned on at all by naked girls......im 16!!!!

ok, so next time you have the motivation to masturate, look at some fetish porn while you're at it. or go to a little place in you mind where you can just imagine the most erotic thing you can think of.

ok i lubed it up and got some really good pictures - but it didnt work. picture or no picture, lube or no lube, i cant do it. this cant be normal for a 16 year old. i just start doing it and after a while it just starts to hurt, and sometimes it starts to go floppy while im doing it, probably because it doesnt exactly feel good (doesnt feel bad either, just doesnt feel any different). has anyone else had this problem? and anyone got any more ideas?

thanks.

btw, if it helps: i am uncircumsized, and have an average penis according to the penis faq.

well this is a really tough one. maybe you're into something you don't realize you're into. try some anal stimulation while you're feeling yourself up.

BTW, i just realized how that came off. i'm not trying to say you're gay. i meant that some guys really get off on anal stimulation. sometimes when a guy is having trouble cuming, a simple finger up the ass will set him off.

and most importantly, don't think about masturbating. think about the girls. don't try to make yourself orgasm, just let it happen.