You probably fall into one of the following categories:

1. There's a girl you like but you're not sure if she likes you.

2. There's a girl you like and you know she likes you.

3. There's no girl you like, but you want to know how to meet female of type x, whatever it is you like.

4. You'll tag anything that moves.

Please be aware that the answers to all these situations exist in one thread or another currently being tossed about in this forum. You shouldn't have to go back more than a few pages to find something useful.

Remember: Just because you may have been taught that everyone is unique, special, or whatnot, it doesn't mean that any situation you go through in life is the same. Take advantage of the fact that *everyone* goes through this shit at one point or another. Learn from the people you see around you dealing with this and read the existing advice for problems similar to the one you're having.

Most of you should have no need to post about your specific dilemma after a little research. The rest can at least say, "Well, I know this, this, and this, but here's this other detail I can't figure out." If you can do that, you're much more likely to get useful assistance, because everyone who reads this forum regularly has to be tired of seeing the same thing over and over. Threads like this are getting less and less of a response because they're so repetitive. No one likes to say the same thing eight billion times, so do yourself a favor and find as many answers on your own as possible. they exist.

Sorry to say Mr McBang...But you forgot the 5th category:

5: You'll tag anything..Pulse is optional!

Sorry to say that...I felt it was humourous at the time!

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

do yourself a favor and find as many answers on your own as possible. they exist.

ahh yes very true!

I read somewhere that like 80% of people nowadys will search for something they need to know on the net....

that means no books, magazines, asking humans! for the info they need

You left out the guys who have a bead on how she feels, but have scared off so many girls (to the point where they transfer out of your class even) that you are terrified to do anything about it.

*goes off to sulk*

Feel free to post your unique situation, and it would be helpful to explain the details which make it unique.

And, just for the record, here's a summary of how to get a girlfriend:

<UL TYPE=SQUARE>

<LI>Be yourself

<LI>Check your standards and be sure they're commensurate with what you offer the social world.

<LI>Play an instrument, draw or write. Don't just say you do.

</UL>