i am 16 and about a month and a half ago i started to have sex. the first time i didnt cum, the second time i did. it is kinda a every other time thing. i am worried because i dont cum everytime we have sex and we do it for an hour at the least. i can go on an on but i dont ejaculate every time. now i could understand if my girlfriend wasnt attractive but she is the hottest girl in my school, also i would understand if she did only one position but we do all kinds of stuff. i am kinda scared because it makes me think of the movie TOM CATS when kyle says "i fuck and i fuck but i cant get a relief." is there anything i can do? not only am i embarased but im kinda scared.

Maybe you should go see a doctor or if you can't facethat then there are some herbal remidies you could try. Have a look in your local herbal shop or drug store.

Plus your only young sometimes this can happen cause of nerves.



[This message has been edited by SpikeForever (edited 08-31-2003).]

If you're really worried, talk to a doctor, but as long as you can come at least part of the time, I doubt there's anything wrong with you. It could be that your body doesn't charge quickly enough to keep up with you guys. Whatever the reason, tell your girlfriend to enjoy it while it lasts, because you'll figure it out eventually.

Hehehehe...I like your taste in films, mate!!!

Anyways...Either see a doctor about it or try taping a page out of playboy or some other bongo mag on the bed post.

It IS a possibility that this girl isn't doing it for you on some other level other than physically.

There's my thoughts on the matter...Hope they help.

It's probably nerves, I've been there. But remember how it is now, once you get more relaxed and normal out you can induce this state to increase stamina. It's a great and handy trick.

practice makes perfect

You sound kind of like a retard. Now that that's out of the way I would go see a doctor. Either there is something wrong physically(ie. too much masterbation) or it's as previously stated you have emotional problems.

If you think you're supposed to cum every single time you orgasm you're way off.



Shek

Dude, this might be something called "retarded ejaculation". By the way, "retarded" just means "slowed down".

Consult a doctor. Really, don't piss about asking fuckwits on the internet. Medical professionals are where it's at.

Maybe you can't cum because your taste in movies sucks.

quote:Originally posted by 256:

Consult a doctor. Really, don't piss about asking fuckwits on the internet. Medical professionals are where it's at.

Hey dipfuck, if you don't like us fuckwits. THEN GET THE FUCK LOST. We don't need your dumb 6 post jew ass around here telling us what you think about us. New flash dipshit! We don't fucking care.

Get lost,

Shek

quote:Originally posted by Prince Charming:

Hey dipfuck, if you don't like us fuckwits. THEN GET THE FUCK LOST. We don't need your dumb 6 post jew ass around here telling us what you think about us. New flash dipshit! We don't fucking care.

Get lost,

Shek

Although im not one for flameing i must agree .. there are some very intelligent people on this forum some of which could pass as professionals.. i suggest you should just shut up unless you have some meaningful advise...

as for the your question above you could visit a doctor but it's hard to talk to some one like that about your unit .. but in the long run you may benifit from it .. i suggest you suck it up and visit him the most he can do is smirk ? besides it's better to know whats going on and know it's normal then to live a life of embarassment ..

me i can beat it 7 times in a row before the tanks start running on empty ...

(least thats how far i got before my hand started to fall off)

lol go see the doc ..

-warweed12

just relax man seriously, you might be worryin about it TOO much and then just work yourself up about it.

im betting it's a problem with your technique, not with your physiology. the first few times i had sex, it was a little awkward, and the rhythm was all wrong, and i didn't know how too move right... what im getting to is that it's probably a problem with your (or maybe her) technique. practice makes perfect.

BTW, are you using condoms? if you are, that might be the problem. some guys have trouble getting off when using condoms because it reduces sensation...

anyways.... if you're really worried, go to a doctor. but chances are it's nothing serious, just a mix of nerves, lack of experience, and reduced feeling. just keep trying and it'll get easier.

ohh i tought this was "cat cum"....aqward... ill be leaving now

it may be the condoms, because i use a variety of diffrent kinds and now that i think of it,certain ones work better. now i am also thinking that the sex isnt as good as it could be and thats another thing becaus we are both just starting this. but when we are having sex it isnt any akward movements or bumping heads its all relaxed and were both having fun with it. but im thinking that mabey it is the condoms

well, after the first few times, i never had any trouble with condoms... the first time of the night anyways. you'll get used to them. give it a little time, and you'll be fine. if you're really picky, try lifestyles extra sensation, or whatever they;re called, but beware - they break more often than regular ones.

quote:Originally posted by MytAgiSmasEO:

i am 16 and about a month and a half ago i started to have sex. the first time i didnt cum, the second time i did. it is kinda a every other time thing. i am worried because i dont cum everytime we have sex and we do it for an hour at the least. i can go on an on but i dont ejaculate every time. now i could understand if my girlfriend wasnt attractive but she is the hottest girl in my school, also i would understand if she did only one position but we do all kinds of stuff. i am kinda scared because it makes me think of the movie TOM CATS when kyle says "i fuck and i fuck but i cant get a relief." is there anything i can do? not only am i embarased but im kinda scared.

sounds to me like someone needs to stop beating the meat