Ok heres my question

When you beat your meat say 3 times a week compared to 3 times a day are you conditioning yourself to not blow your load so fast or are you just making it so you blow your load faster ?? either way what would be best ?

beating all the time or some of the time ?

lol kinda weird i know but seriously i would like to last longer

another weird but serious question when your having sex how long till you blow your load ??

im curious just because well hey who doesn't want to last a long time while having sex to please your girl ? that and im wondering how long on average most people last ??

-warweed12

I heard the national average was 3 minutes.

Then again, I'm a virgin.

This is sad to say but to be honest as long as you go down on me I don't care how long you last! Fucking is all well and good but it ain't the be all and end all! Clit stimulation is what counts!

was is it "sad to say" at least your being compltly honest

-warweed12

10 mins if I'm really horny, and I'm feeling all out... None of that making love crap, it's hardcore fucking that I'm in for...

20 mins norm, like 70% of the time I think...

30 mins if it's a good day...

45 mins if I'm in the zone, and I catually practice those techniques you read about to last longer although that hasn't happened many times.. i.e, regulate your breathing, don't concentrate on sex and the good feelings only..gaze around for a bit, stop when you feel like you're about to come, and play around with her or fondle/lick her breasts or kiss her passionately blah blah blah

Is the art of lovemaking dead? Does no one know how to please a woman anymore? Actual insertion need last only moments, it's the build up that counts. Please them and you'll be more satisfied than ever before. Trust me.

Conditioning ehh?? Well...yeah you could say that. The more you whack it, the better you'll be at knowing how close you are to finishing....if you can hold off, when you've gone past that crucial point of no return. Sure, you can call it that.

There are ways of menaly conditioning yourself to not finish too soon, and to last as long as you like. There is also a technique where you press hard at a spot about halfway between you sack and your anus when you orgasim. It allows you to orgasim without ejaculating, and you can continue having sex. Each successive orgasim tends to become more intense that way. There are also a rare few who between mental dicipline and natural stamina can orgasim/ejaculate and still continue unimpeded.

Frequent masturbation has one definate effect I know of, and probably a few others, such as desensitization. The defiinitive effect is training your body for the ability to have more frequent orgasims. Just like a runner you body becomes accustomed to an activity and adapts so that it is less strenous. Someone who doesn't get off often (less than once a week) may be lucky to be able to do it 3 times in 24 hours, but someone who does it 2 or 3 times a day can often push themselves to upwards of 7 ejaculations in 24 hours, provided that there is a day or two off beforehand to build the reserves.

The more you masturbate the more familiar you become with your body's responses. It's good to know exactly how it feels to approach "the point of no return" and experiment with the degree of sensation you can tolerate at this stage.

Then, when reaching this stage during sex, you know when to stop fucking and start playing around a bit to delay blowing your load.

So, jacking off regularly leads to better sex and greater stamina. Beneficial to all.

I reckon that my sexual stamina wouldn'y be as high as it is nowadays if it weren't for wanking so much from the age of 7!!!

When I was 7, i would wank and be done in about 30 seconds.

Now I'm 18, it takes me a good 10 minutes to get me to finish myself off!

Without the sexual priming and getting used to sexual activity, one wouldn't have a resistance to early ejaculations.

Thanks to wanking, I can easily go for around 45 minutes...About 2 hours after a few beers!

I never cum early...I cum right on time...For me anyways!!!

7? Wow.

I remember back when a Victoria's Secret ad used to be enough time to get my pants down, get off, clean up, and get my pants back on.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

The more you masturbate the more familiar you become with your body's responses. It's good to know exactly how it feels to approach "the point of no return" and experiment with the degree of sensation you can tolerate at this stage.



Well said.

for me, if i don't do it for a while like a week or so, and then when i do it or get some head or fuck my girlfriend it goes so much faster and thats jus not cool.

on days when im sure that i'm going to be gettin some that night, i'll just do it in the AM and at night when it goes on, you last alot longer and you can have more fun that way.

quote:Originally posted by Prometheus:

7? Wow.

I remember back when a Victoria's Secret ad used to be enough time to get my pants down, get off, clean up, and get my pants back on.



Heheh, I know what you mean, now it takes like the most extreme sick and twisted porn I can find just to get me hard.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...Bravo, Shadow88...I know what you mean, guvna!!!

I have to look around hard for porn that will get me off!!!

I certainly think that wanking helps with the stamina during actual penetration. I can usually go for about a hour after penetration, though my current record is a hour fourty five. But thats just penetration. The build up is also really important. It's nice to get started with some nice kissing and petting, then moving on to a little fingering, and then some oral before the penetration, and then more kissing afterwards as a cool down. Of course I guess all that is the difference between making love and fucking.