I'm having a problem with women these days. I realize this is one of those problems most people wish they had, but it still is dumb. Anyways, right now I just went into the highschool, and I just got reunited with all the older chicks. Now, I changed drastically lookswise, and now look fairly good. I was friends with all the girls anyways, and now alot of them are starting to get attracted to me. So now, I can usually be found walking around with atleast to girls trying to flirt with me. Now, this could be seen as great, but now I'm afraid to start a relationship with anyone, because I'm thinking maybe I'll ruin my chances with other people later in life, my gf will get mad with all the chicks hugging me and all that stuff, or everyone but my gf will just stop talking to me at all kinda thing. I'm not totally sure what to do, and I'm not totally sure what my question is, I'm just having a weird time, with weird thoughts. Thanks for anyone who can offer help,



Tingtonger

If you have a girlfriend, forget about it. If not, go for it. It's not gonna ruin the rest of your life because you're having fun right now. That's silly. You're young, have fun....but wear protection, or it WILL ruin the rest of your life. STD's or a pregnancy with rain on anyone's parade.

yea, this kind of thing happens.

First, pinch yourself real hard to make sure you're not just dreaming!! (hee hee)!! Seriously, the reality is that you will probably have between 10 and 30 GFs (mostly one at a time) before you find the "perfect one". That's just the way it works. So you may as well start now by picking one that looks best to at the moment. You don't have to keep her forever, but you've got to start sometime, somewhere!! Once you get a GF, then the length of that "girl pied-piper" line who have been following you around will shorten a lot, and give you some temporary relief!! (hee hee)!! Love, Venus.

i know what you mean... thats the same way i am. the solution? dont get a girlfriend, of course! play the field some. just make sure, that anyone YOU flirt with knows that youre not looking for a serious relationship, youre just looking to be friends/get tail (depending on who it is). so, thats what id do. mess around with them if you think theyre hot, befriend them if theyre nice, and stay on your toes... just make sure you arent using them... that can annihilate your reputation. get to know them first, and be cool with them, before you try anything. you cant dont want to be stamped with a bad label by them, hm?

and tell the hott ones i said hi!

ts