right. i've been thinking about this.

i've read in alot of places that when you are talking to a girl its "sexy" to look into thier eyes briefly, but dont stare.

now i naturally look into peoples eyes when they talk,blokes as well as girls, because i just do.

and no im not Bi. i just look at peoples eyes..

so what the fuck am i meant to do? stare at thier tits? thier forehead and make them think they have a huge spot there? thier hair and make them think they have some sperm in there? what the fuck?

not really a problem but yeah..just wanted your thoughts/suggestions.

thanks in advance.

Shittie

I have exact opposite problem.

I can't look people in the eyes. It's too intense. I have been practicing, though.

Look at some other places on their face, or slightly off to the side.

I always look a person in the eyes, but never get accused of staring. More to do with the expression on your face. It's a good confidence builder.

Keep staring, Shittie...I love it.

when i look other places i feel like im...being rude..

i dont know why..

yeah i know it builds confidence..but that isn't why i do it. i just do it naturally..

but this disables the feat of me doing the sexy eye brief looking thing that i've heard oh so much about.

and seeing as im single and fucking lonely it irritates the crap out of me.

oh and gorrila thriller....i do it specially for you....

*shudders*

Shittie

Ah don't worry too much. I was my own worst enemy when it came to confidence and meeting people. Things will work out.

the brief eye contact is good when you're in the same room or near a girl but don't know her yet (passing on the street etc.). when you actually do talk to her, look her right in the eye. this works both ways. haven't you ever had a girl look you in the eye when she talks and you barely comprehend what she's saying? 420...

you should be fine, if you dont stress. girls like for guys to look into their eyes and smile once in a while, just dont freak her out by staring at her the whole time.

just look at her tits when she turns her head. haha

no i got no problem with confidence..except maybe asking girls out..but that isn't the issue. the issue is what should i do about looking at them. in the eye, or not as the case maybe..the tits idea is good. i will do that..

but yeah.

thanks anyway.

Shittie

If you naturally look people in the eye while talking to them, don't stop. The idea that you should do it once in a while and mostly look away is for the people who can't do it at all, to get them used to it. As long as your look doesn't scream "deranged psycho", it helps.

heh...well...

thanks guys.

Shittie