Just curious. Seem to be a lot of hints, and some straightforward comments. Seems to be mote Bis here than in a standard population, is it the anonimity or are Totse types more open minded?

I suppose I should mention that I am bisexual. Not that it matters much (monogamous too).

i think it's just the fact that totse is anonymous. most people have some urges toward their own sex, and usually don't act upon them. but when no one knows who they are, then they're not so worried about judgement.

i'm bi, i've had encounters with guys, not as many as with girls, but some nonetheless. in my opinion, sex is sex. i don't care if it's a girl or a guy sucking my dick, so long as it feels good. call me open minded.

I suspect the same. It will be interesting to see how many others hold their hands up. I have no puiruent interest, I just wonder. Totse seems such a mix of open minds (so open you can tie them behind your ears) and bigots. I respect both.

i'd say i was bi.

but i prefer girls to men

I'm bi, but typically with women.

Honestly I have never really felt the urge to kiss or do anything with another guy. Now my neighbor and I fool around sometimes and he will slap my ass and say "hey cutie" or shit like that but that is just us joking around. I'm not homophobic or anything. LoL actually one time as a joke we went to a gay bar just because our fiance's didn't think that we would and that kind of thing didn't bother me but I just don't have the urge or feelings to kiss another guy.

Take Care,

Kangy

I'm bi.

I wouldnt ever want a relationshp with a guy or would i ever want to kiss one.

But i would let him suck my dick.

I am not bi .. but i am open minded...

i have many bi friends and some gay all of which do not bother me in the least i never had the urge to ingage in any thing sexual with the same sex but .. i guess i would for the right price lol ... (you would have to want me pretty bad ) but naw im stricly with the women ... it's intresting though i was talking to some one (won't mentions names) and they commented on that all women are bi sexual and only a select few supress it due to public image somthing about the only reason a women is with a guy is because of the need to reperduce and i got to thinking you know this is fairly true just because a women knows what a women wants ... and well guys thats 2 totally diffrent storys



what are your comments

-warweed12

I'm bi but i prefer females also.

Im not bi at all. I have no wishes to do anything or be in a realtionship with a guy. Im as staright as the Fonze. Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

I'm bi. I'm open about that with everyone I know. I can't imagine hiding who I am so as to be accepted by a bunch of losers I wouldn't want to hang out with anyway. But I think it's different for me because I live in a place where bi chicks are pretty well accepted by most people. Though it wasn't like that a couple years ago. I think I started a trend *shudder*

I agree with warweed 100% on all counts.

I identify as straight when people ask, but I would possibly mess around with a chick if the right situation arose because I think women have beautiful sexy bodies. but if I ever had to chose between being with a girl forever or being with a guy then I would pick the guy hands down. I dont think people are really bi-sexual I think people are horny and dont care how they get off. Being attracted to the same sex doesnt make you bi or gay, I think everyone to a certain degree is attracted to the opposite sex, if they admit it or not is another story. But I think it comes down to, which sex would you rather be with.

-Meghan

losergurl, no offence, but don't speak for anyone but yourself. For you to say that my love for a girl or my love for a guy is somehow less valid because I have the capacity to care for both of them (not necessarily at the same time) is pure closed-minded bullshit. Not everyone likes one sex more than the other. You might, but you are not everyone else in the world.

Maybe I should rephrase myself, I dont believe all bisexuals are totally confused people. But I think alot of people claiming to be bi are confused and or horny.

A quote I found from Dan Savage, who writes for a local indy newspaper here in Seattle pretty much describes how I feel about the bi issue.

"Sexual orientation may not be a choice, but sexual identity is. The more closely a person's professed sexual identity reflects his behavior, and the more closely his behavior reflects his desires, the less fucked-up and conflicted he's likely to be. So if a guy is attracted to men and women equally, and he sleeps with both men and women, and he falls in love with men and women, he should identify as bisexual, since the bisexual label most accurately describes who he is and what his partners can expect from him.

If a guy's sexual and emotional desires are overwhelmingly hetero, on the other hand, but he likes to suck cock once in a great while, then identifying as bisexual is rather misleading. A guy who's exclusively into women emotionally and 95 percent into women sexually probably shouldn't tell anyone he's bi. Better he should round himself up to 100 percent hetero in casual conversations and tell people he's straight--not because it's convenient or safer in the closet, or because Dan Savage doesn't think bisexuals exist. (Believe me, they do, and I'm going to hear from them this week.) No, he should tell people he's straight because "straight" most accurately describes who he is. See how that works?"

-Dan savage

quote:Originally posted by losergurl:

I dont think people are really bi-sexual I think people are horny and dont care how they get off.

-Meghan

quote:Originally posted by losergurl:

I dont believe all bisexuals are totally confused people

Is it just me, or did you completely contradict yourself? If you say something dumb, back it up or take it back, but don't pretend you never said it.

My friend has a friend that thought he was gay and looked it up on the intenet. He found out taht everyone is 31 or 32% homosexual. Otherwise you would not have friend ships with someone of the other same sex if you were 0% homosexual.

I have urges to do something wih a guy. Never acted on it though. I have one bi friend but I don't know if I would ever engage him in any activity.

PYTH

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I'm about as homophobic as it comes, I could never do anything with a guy. Oh well, I get plenty from girls as it is.



Shek

quote:Originally posted by losergurl:

I dont think people are really bi-sexual I think people are horny and dont care how they get off.

that would be me.

sometimes i wish i was gay... girls are too stupid to deal with sometimes.

im 100 percent queer. I LOVE the cock!

I'm open minded. Im straight, how could i not be, i have a hot brazillian woman with a big round ass. I dont think i could ever give that up for any guy or girl.

Exodus5000

I could probably do some shit sexually with a guy, but there's no way in hell I could kiss him or date him.

That'd be just plain odd, and wouldn't feel right to me.

im not bi, or gay, or anything, but ive kissed a guy before. im not ashamed of it or anything, and i dont remember HOW that actually came about, but i would never tounge one or fool around with another guy or something like that...

to each his own. touché

ts

I could probably close my eyes and ignore the fact a guy was sucking my dick, but come on.. girls have much nicer asses and much softer lips. Guys are just.. bluh.

As usual in this forum, there is but a pair of people who have posted above me that should have their lives spared.

I still love you Spirit (not in that sticky way). You are more Il Duce than Nat Soc. arent you?

Yeah, Iam too, although i could never handle a relationship with one, yuck.. can you imagine?

I could never do anything with another dude...

To quote the Diceman: "How can a guy look at another guy's hairy ass and want to bang it?"

I'm not homophobic either tho, I've known and worked with gay dudes and never had any problems whatsoever, although my old supervisor insisted on telling me his stories. "Hey Scott I got laid last night", and I'd reply "I don't think I wanna hear this Pete" but he'd tell me anyway. And I'd spend the next couple hours trying to get the images outta my head.

quote:Originally posted by LutherX:

I could never do anything with another dude...

I'm not homophobic either tho, I've known and worked with gay dudes and never had any problems whatsoever...

i'm with your response. i'm not bi or gay but don't mind people who are. i just have a problem with seeing or hearing about the intimate details (when men are involved). two women, of course, are in a different arena . another case of the ol' double standard. 420...

Dan Savage? The same Dan Savage that does the "Savage Love" relationship/advice column?

I love his work. I read it every week in Detroit's Metro Times (http://www.metrotimes.com). Anyone who is intrested can find it through the link.

Alright, I believe now we must get scientific here. I am not "bi" or "gay", but I am a heterosexual, the normal, as you should put it. The human race goes back to maybe 1 million years, counting evolution. During this time period we progressed by reproducing. Due to sexual desires for the opposite race we are able to reproduce. Now, you take a homosexual and someone with autism, but what is their similarity? They are both retarded. Now, don't go off on a cherry hunt for me just yet until you hear the reasoning.

The person with autism has a social disorder while the person with homosexualism has a sexuality disorder. We have evolved, I use this since there is evidence to support the evolution theory, to reproduce and have sexual feelings for the opposite race. We must have sexual feelings for the other race to reproduce. Some say "Well, I wasn't born this way it just happened after I had bad experiences with the opposite sex." The answer to this is that you aren't always born retarded. You can be in a severe car wreck and come out with only 3/4th of your brain functioning just as you can be severely damaged emotionally causing you to think otherwise for the opposite sex.

You see, it all comes down to the human brain. The human race was suppose to be normal with all parts of the body, able to think and act normally, and be heterosexual to reproduce. Now, for the "bisexuals" I put this in quotes because I really don't believe there is such a thing. It is only a state of confusion, as said above, in the human brain. You might be on the verge of turning into a homosexual or heterosexual in the future, or your hormones are excessively over doing themselves and need special treatment. You will eventually grow out of this stage.

Do not flame me, but if you have constructive critism to say, post it and base it off facts like I did.

Im straight just to start with. That said, I did suck my best freind's (at the time) dick for a 15 seconds and visa versa in a truth or dare game. I didn't like it either way, but he turned out a couple years later to be gay/bi. No one is really sure about him. So far as I know for sure is his only happy sexual experience has been with 2 feminine guys, one hot hooker and a tomgirl. I love one guy but not sexually. More like he's like a brother to me and my girlfreind. Seeing guys naked casually doesnt gross me out or turn me on in the least bit either way. I guess im not bothered by other guys so long as they keep the gay sex away from my eyes and ears. Now seeing a girl fucking a girl or guy is another story just because I love seeing girls cum however it happens to them

By the way, are there any guys out there who wouldn't want to see two girls? Or any girls who do want to see 2 guys? just wondering and it seems to go along with this topic.

quote:Originally posted by Kryptonite:

Alright, I believe now we must get scientific here. I am not "bi" or "gay", but I am a heterosexual, the normal, as you should put it. The human race goes back to maybe 1 million years, counting evolution. During this time period we progressed by reproducing. Due to sexual desires for the opposite race we are able to reproduce. Now, you take a homosexual and someone with autism, but what is their similarity? They are both retarded. Now, don't go off on a cherry hunt for me just yet until you hear the reasoning.

The person with autism has a social disorder while the person with homosexualism has a sexuality disorder. We have evolved, I use this since there is evidence to support the evolution theory, to reproduce and have sexual feelings for the opposite race. We must have sexual feelings for the other race to reproduce. Some say "Well, I wasn't born this way it just happened after I had bad experiences with the opposite sex." The answer to this is that you aren't always born retarded. You can be in a severe car wreck and come out with only 3/4th of your brain functioning just as you can be severely damaged emotionally causing you to think otherwise for the opposite sex.

You see, it all comes down to the human brain. The human race was suppose to be normal with all parts of the body, able to think and act normally, and be heterosexual to reproduce. Now, for the "bisexuals" I put this in quotes because I really don't believe there is such a thing. It is only a state of confusion, as said above, in the human brain. You might be on the verge of turning into a homosexual or heterosexual in the future, or your hormones are excessively over doing themselves and need special treatment. You will eventually grow out of this stage.

Do not flame me, but if you have constructive critism to say, post it and base it off facts like I did.

man, i could poke so many holes into this. i mean, what about the romans? they had gay sex, and that was the norm. men would have sex with women and 'beautiful boys' (feminine dudes) at their orgies. get with it. and we mate with the opposite sex, not the opposite race.

aside from that, i love you spirit, will you date me?

and on another totally different tangent, when i say that i'm bi, i mean sexually, not socially. i would fuck a guy, but not date one. kind of hard to describe...

and spiffy, when you say that girls have softer lips, this is true. girls are more fun to kiss, but who can honestly suck dick better than a gay guy?

quote:Originally posted by losergurl:

. But I think alot of people claiming to be bi are confused and or horny.

"Sexual orientation may not be a choice, but sexual identity is. The more closely a person's professed sexual identity reflects his behavior, and the more closely his behavior reflects his desires, the less fucked-up and conflicted he's likely to be. So if a guy is attracted to men and women equally, and he sleeps with both men and women, and he falls in love with men and women, he should identify as bisexual, since the bisexual label most accurately describes who he is and what his partners can expect from him.

If a guy's sexual and emotional desires are overwhelmingly hetero, on the other hand, but he likes to suck cock once in a great while, then identifying as bisexual is rather misleading. A guy who's exclusively into women emotionally and 95 percent into women sexually probably shouldn't tell anyone he's bi. Better he should round himself up to 100 percent hetero in casual conversations and tell people he's straight--not because it's convenient or safer in the closet, or because Dan Savage doesn't think bisexuals exist. (Believe me, they do, and I'm going to hear from them this week.) No, he should tell people he's straight because "straight" most accurately describes who he is. See how that works?"

-Dan savage



No i dont see how that works. He should tell people whatever the hell he wants and not what some dickhead decides, because thats the way he needs to clasify people in order to not feel uncomfortable.

I am bi and i am not confused at all. It has been very very clear to me for a long time.

I think you should go away and learn about bisexuality a bit more before contributing to the discussion. Try www.bi.org.au (http://www.bi.org.au) and read the articles.

GO!

I would say it is the anonimity of TOTSE that allows people to freely braodcast their sexual orientations.

quote:By the way, are there any guys out there who wouldn't want to see two girls? Or any girls who do want to see 2 guys? just wondering and it seems to go along with this topic.

It turns me on to see two guys together (never seen it in real life, only tv). Watching two men kiss makes my toes curl!

I have been to a gay bar before and I loved it. I got to dance sexy with loads of fit men with no worry they were going to jump me.

I'm a girl in case your wondering.

Earlier in the year I went to a gay pride festival in Lansing, Michigan. Saw entirely too much of affectionate men dressed in leather and stainless steel. And not enough affectionate lesbians, though they did exist.

Note: Only one guy had a non-disturbing leather/steel outfit, it was a kickass shirt/vest type deal with a leather kilt. Something I would be proud to have in my closet.

I am a bi female and my fiance(e?) is bi as well. We are totally mongamous and totally happy with each other. And, may I add, not "confused" about ourselves at all.

I used to be nervous about bi/bi relationships, thinking there was too much opportunity and possibility of fooling around. But I was wrong. It's all about how committed you are to each other. Sexual orientation has nothing to do with fidelity.

Kryptonite, you really need to talk to a bisexual/be friends with one before you go shooting out crap like this. More recent studies (I would link to something, but I'm lazy. If you care, I'll site what I'm saying later) have shown that most if not all women can be sexually aroused equally by both men and women. So, a woman's sexual orientation really depends more on how she was raised/what she chooses to do than what she is biologically designed to do.

I would never do anything with another guy. girls are feminine and always smell good(if you find a good one). how could you be attracted to another guy? My girlfriend is bi. i would never do anything with another guy.blah.

eh, I'm mostly gay, I have some slight attraction to females, but not enough to call myself bi. I do think there are alot of "trendy" bisexuals, though. You know, the type of people who try to act all "hip" and "with it" by being completely retarded and demeaning themselves in an attempt to look "sexy." Those people just bug me...I mean, if you get off on chicks, by all means, do chicks, and if you get of on guys, do guys....but don't just do stuff for the sake of looking cool, that is just a waste of perfectly good sex (assuming sex can be wasted...)

quote:Originally posted by buster_hymen:

I mean, if you get off on chicks, by all means, do chicks, and if you get of on guys, do guys....

Best advice I've ever heard.

quote:Originally posted by TalcumPowder:

Im straight just to start with. That said, I did suck my best freind's (at the time) dick for a 15 seconds and visa versa in a truth or dare game...No one is really sure about him.

i'm not really sure about you.

I'm straight, but I prefer women to men .

quote:We must have sexual feelings for the other race to reproducehaha

quote:it was a kickass shirt/vest type deal with a leather kilt. Something I would be proud to have in my closet.haha

quote:Originally posted by Prometheus:

Something I would be proud to have in my closet.

for when you come out of the closet?

hahaha.. sorry, i had to.

no i'm not bi, I just grab my friend's (guy) ass once in a while, we've spooned a few times, it's all good fun

in my opinion (and yes, i'm a bi-guy myself), it's those that admit to something as personal as being bi or what have you that makes you a better person. i mean, honestly, who gives a damn about gay-bashers and all that shit?

Shalakai

Let's do some narcotics testing. Which one first?...

I'm not gay. But maybe I just haven't met the right guy yet...

Ok...question. I'm straight, maybe a little bi?? Ne way...I get feelings(or w/e) like when you have a friend over and your playing video games.(oh and friend is same sex..i'm male). or actually look up porn or W/E i just want to do something with him. Or or vise versa.?? Is this ODD??? does anyone else feel this way?

You're lying to us and yourself. You are definatly more than a little by.

I am bi-curious. I would love to have an experience with a woman of my choosing. However, it's very difficult to find the right one, I am pretty picky about women because I am one.

I have roughly 10 gay male friends who are very outspoken about their sexual preference. Doesn't bother me in the least...The only issue I have with someone being homosexual is the gay men who act like women or gay women who act like men.

Just because you have a sexual preference, doesn't mean you have to change your entire demeanor. A man can love fucking men, but that doesn't mean he has to act like more of a woman than I do. The same goes for the lesbians of the world, no need to act like a man because you like fucking women.

That's very unnecessary. If you're going to be gay, fine, be gay. I don't care. I have some gay porn, men on men, women on women, and depending on who is in it and what they are doing, I am turned on by the thought of the pleasure they are experiencing, not so much the stigma of it being "forbidden" sex.

Just my two cents... also, yes, being anonymous on a site where you know no one will ever find you anyway does afford people the opportunity to lay it all on the line and say this is how I am, like me or fuck off.

Dirt Claud...

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I don't see people as "men" or "women," "guys" or "girls." People are beautiful, if I fall in love with a person, I fall in love with them. If I like a person, and I kiss them, then I kiss them. It's pretty simple.

Also, I really don't give a crap about what people think of me, sex-wise. If people are that close-minded as to judge me because I like guys and girls, why should I even be socialising with them?

I am also relatively sure that where I live has one of the highest (teen) bisexual communities in the US. So there's no reason for me to care about anonymity.

quote:The only issue I have with someone being homosexual is the gay men who act like women or gay women who act like men.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever heard. If you dislike someone for their sexual preferance, you probably have reasons for this, whether religious or because you think they're mentally unstable. But how can you go around saying "I don't like men who act like women"? Who are you to say what is and is not acting like a woman or man, anyway? People choose to act how they do, and if you're bothered by the fact that gay men are sometimes more feminine than you, then get the fuck over it. You think you're not a bigot because you are cool with homosexuals, but I think you're just dumb and nitpicky. You suck.

Edit: I had to comment on kewlaudia's post.

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OOOK...I am Bisexual and Me and my best friend have been fooling around for the past say 2 years and we finally "came out". Seeing as Im so young N all like alotta ppl at my school think being gay or bi is TOTALLY gross...but i dont give a shit because ashley is awesome! But then theres the guys who think its really hot...Me and ashley have both been tolled were really good looking but all these strait girls get more guys and then come up to us and brag about, Im like so fucking what...but it gets really annoying..

quote:Originally posted by weedman1234:

I'm bi.

I wouldnt ever want a relationshp with a guy or would i ever want to kiss one.

But i would let him suck my dick.

Ahaha...Your not bi, your just horny

stephanina your great... i wish all people where like you

i'm, well..i'm sorta hetero.. or not.. actually not... but i feel more for the opposit sex