I am having trouble with what I should do about two different girls.

First I have a girlfriend and we have been going out for 3 months and she is madly in love with me, but I am losing connection with her. I mean I thought I was in love, and we fooled around, and even had sex. I don't want to make her feel like I used her, cause I didn't. Also, if I break up with her, she will probably get really depressed and try and kill herself. I don't want that.

The other girl, I have known for a while, and I have always had the hots for. This girl, unlike my GF goes to my school. She is nice, funny, and I think she likes me. The only thing that is holding me back is my GF who I am scared will kill herself.

I don't know what to do, please help.

Also My GF right now is 1 year younger than the one I like.

let her down REAL easy, not telling her you're going for someone else. say stuff in your first paragraph to her. "losing connection"... "don't want to make her feel like i used her"... be real nice about it if she's the kind of person that would get real depressed. just do the whole "it's not you, it's me" thing. ...only in different wording.

in any case, DON'T stay with her because you're afraid of her killing herself. i've had those feelings before when i was going out with guys who threatened to do something like that. it's scary, and you don't want to be responsible. but you're not responsible for her actions.

good luck with this new girl

she wont kill herself, and if she does. then she has a weak mind

Has she actually said she would kill herself? She probably doesn't mean it, but just think about why you are "loosing connection" and whats to say this new girl is better? We all want what we can't have...and you know what curiosity did.

If you want then go for it, don't be put off by your girlfriend - how could anyone blame you for what she does to herself? jR.

She told me, that i am the only reason she lives, and if she didnt have me, she would probably kill herself, cause she hates her parents.

Also it is not that I want what I can't have, cause I can have it. That is why I am gonna date her.