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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2003-08-24, 07:45
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Pythagorus1 
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Coming clean.
After two months. Of keeping the secret that I cheated on my ex. I have decided to come clean and tell her I have done so. I already told her best friend and she was happy about it. She told me that its about time someone cheated on her, because my ex's friend has been cheated on alot. So I'm going to tell her in person to her face with no remorse at all.
I know how I want to do it. But I want it to end with her asking what do you mean, or what are you trying to say, and me screaming I CHEATED ON YOU!! Is there a convo that I can start that I can do that.
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#2
 2003-08-24, 08:26
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Re: Coming clean.
Say like, "so... what'd you do for lunch today...YOU DUMB BITCH I FUCKING CHEATED ON YOUR SKANKY ASS. BITCH.
Shek
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#3
 2003-08-24, 08:39
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Re: Coming clean.
quote:Originally posted by Pythagorus1:
But I want it to end with her asking what do you mean, or what are you trying to say,
In that case, write her a letter with fragments like..
quote:Originally posted by Pythagorus1:
After two months.
And
quote:Originally posted by Pythagorus1:
Of keeping the secret that I cheated on my ex.
I had to read it twice. It might work on her too.
-Easy
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#4
 2003-08-24, 08:43
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Pythagorus1 
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Re: Coming clean.
quote:Originally posted by Prince Charming:
Say like, "so... what'd you do for lunch today...YOU DUMB BITCH I FUCKING CHEATED ON YOUR SKANKY ASS. BITCH.
Shek
Funniest shit I read all day.
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#5
 2003-08-24, 08:55
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Sol463 
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Re: Coming clean.
Like this:
Do you see that wall paper, Ive always loved that shade of green. It reminds me of my Grandma's cabin. I use to go visit her there, before she passed away. The trees. The trees were that exact shade of green, every time I see it, I smile and I think of my grandma. Grandma Karrie. I miss her. Today is the aniversary of her death. I found her body, it was four summers ago, when I was visiting her, that she died. I will never forget how cold her skin felt. I was so young, I just didnt know she was dead. I stayed at her side for two days. Eventually Mr. Perkins stopped by as he always did on Thursday. He found me there next to her side. Oh yeah, I cheated on you.
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#6
 2003-08-24, 19:51
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Apoxyus 
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Re: Coming clean.
quote:Originally posted by Sol463:
Like this:
Do you see that wall paper, Ive always loved that shade of green. It reminds me of my Grandma's cabin. I use to go visit her there, before she passed away. The trees. The trees were that exact shade of green, every time I see it, I smile and I think of my grandma. Grandma Karrie. I miss her. Today is the aniversary of her death. I found her body, it was four summers ago, when I was visiting her, that she died. I will never forget how cold her skin felt. I was so young, I just didnt know she was dead. I stayed at her side for two days. Eventually Mr. Perkins stopped by as he always did on Thursday. He found me there next to her side. Oh yeah, I cheated on you.
That is nice.
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#7
 2003-08-25, 03:10
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EyeSore 
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Re: Coming clean.
quote:Originally posted by Sol463:
Like this:
Do you see that wall paper, Ive always loved that shade of green. It reminds me of my Grandma's cabin. I use to go visit her there, before she passed away. The trees. The trees were that exact shade of green, every time I see it, I smile and I think of my grandma. Grandma Karrie. I miss her. Today is the aniversary of her death. I found her body, it was four summers ago, when I was visiting her, that she died. I will never forget how cold her skin felt. I was so young, I just didnt know she was dead. I stayed at her side for two days. Eventually Mr. Perkins stopped by as he always did on Thursday. He found me there next to her side. Oh yeah, I cheated on you.
you have a gift.
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#8
 2003-08-25, 06:05
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stephanina 
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Re: Coming clean.
Can you say, "drama queen?"
If you told me why you wanna be such a bitch to her then I might have some ideas.
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#9
 2003-08-25, 06:57
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Pythagorus1 
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Re: Coming clean.
quote:Originally posted by stephanina:
Can you say, "drama queen?"
If you told me why you wanna be such a bitch to her then I might have some ideas.
Let me explain. Our relationship was me all me, keeping it together. She teased me alot gave me blue balls. I had to do all the work on seeing her, I went the extra mile to make sure I would see her when she was at her friends, her mom didn't like me. I only seen her 2-3 days a week and it was only for 1-2 hours each. We only got alone time 3 times out of the 3 months we were going out. It was pretty much a social relationship. I know I should have dumped her but didn't because I was lied to by my brain telling me that I loved her. So thats the reason nina.
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#10
 2003-08-27, 00:35
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The fine line between genius and madness
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Re: Coming clean.
Even if you aren't feeling guilty, act it. Say lots of stuff like "This has been eating me up inside" and "I feel horrible" and "I didn't tell you before because I didn't want to hurt you, but I can't live with this lie any more."
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#11
 2003-08-27, 08:19
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Re: Coming clean.
quote:Originally posted by Pythagorus1:
[B}I know how I want to do it. But I want it to end with her asking what do you mean, or what are you trying to say, and me screaming I CHEATED ON YOU!! Is there a convo that I can start that I can do that. [/B]
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Grow up. The relationship's over. She's no longer your girlfriend. You owe her nothing, and you owe yourself better than to start flinging shit at your ex to make yourself feel better.
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#12
 2003-08-28, 03:42
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stephanina 
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Re: Coming clean.
Basically, don't lower yourself to her level. Just have fun with your life and eventually she will realize that she missed out.
If you really feel the need for her to know this, just mention it to a few people offhand. It will get back to her, and it will piss her off even more that you didn't care enough to tell her face to face or even let her know.
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