Seems like alot of guys that always hang all over girls an put theyre arm around them an touch them even if they either just met/ have known each other but arent going out or anything get all the girls?

Touching is definitely a large part of building sexual report, but you got to know when and how much to do it.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

Touching is definitely a large part of building sexual report, but you got to know when and how much to do it.

it's like a learned skill or soemthing...you have to know when to back off and when to keep going

Im not sure,I really only touch(put my arms around them etc)them when I friends and they havent a boyfriend.But I never start touching(like I exampled) them when I have just met them.

It does not have to be anything dramatic at first. Just touch their shoulder for a second when you laugh, or to get their attention. Grab their arm for a second when excited or something and then let go. Brushing back hair is good. You make them comfortable with being touched by you, and insure they are not threatened by not doing anything too prolonged at first. Often it is good to get this started right away to set the tone.

-Easy

not my gf

:P

Sometimes if you you are talking to a friend who is a girl she may get close to you like put their head on your shoulder,and then you put your arm on her waist start gently stroking her side and then she may lye back and put her head on your lap then just keep stroking her hair and keep talking to her.

ok here's the deal, guys with confidence touch people more often. guys with confidence get more girls. not much of a corrolation between those two, but it seems like there is.

another reason maybe, touch is comforting. people like to be with people who are comforting to them. this is where mmy logic went to anyways. if you can make anything of what i said, thats cool, but right now im not making sense.

touching has to be done carefully and subliminally...for example:

you meet a girl...you're chatting...she says something funny...you laugh AND at the same time you gently touch her hand for a second.

this will build a sexual rapport...just don'tgo over the top.

for better explainations than i can give, go to http://www.fastseduction.com

they have shit loads of advice on this sorta thing!

the thing is to start touching all girls and make it part of everything, it'll be weird if u never touch ur girl frnds and when u suddenly start touching they'll notice where ass if u start touching soon as u know them, they'll assume it's part of u and wont be too concenred

In my experience, if a girl likes you, she likes you touching her. If she doesn't, she doesn't. It just doesn't seem that complicated....