I have only got her to once, and I was going down on her using both mouth and fingers. She never has came with anyone except that first time with me.

She told me that she doesn't masterbate a lot, about once every 2 weeks. And the difficult part is she doesn't do it for sexual pleasure, rather to put her self to sleep beacuse it tires her out so much, she says.

Plus she also added she doesnt really go "into", but gets off by doing w/e she does externally.



Dont shout "talk to her, you know her, we dont" I have, she said she would sorta show me how she does it, but I know its gonna be hard since she'll feel awkward doing that in front of me.

If anyone has been in a situation like this, has knowledge of it, or knows a soruce that'd be great.

Damn that is kind of complicated considering that if she is willing to show you how she likes it done than there isn't really too much left on your part that you can do.

The best I can think of is considering you said that you got her off once. Just keep doing what worked. But also try new things.

Take Care,

Kangy

tie her down and blindfold her. you may laugh, but trust me, it works. restraining her would work well, because you could then tease her. tease her for at least a few minutes before you touch anything important. then finally go down on her.

it'll be easier for her to cum if she's blindfolded because it'll make it easier to focus on the pleasure. if she gets almost there but not quite, then start using your fingers. stick one up her ass. it'll get her distracted, see a lot of girls try so hard to cum, instead of just letting it happen.

don't keep pushing fingers inside her, this rarely is what a girl wants. focus on her clit more with your tongue. write the abc's on it with the tip of your tongue. it'll drive her crazy.

Dont you listen to loveline? A lot of girls in their teens cants orgasm... Dont remember why atm .. but they just .. dont.

Three words:

'Gas powered vibrator'

This brings back fond memories of teen years. Guys look upon "giving" a girl an orgasm as some kind of Holy Grail quest.

Even if your girl could show you how she satisfies herself, you probably won't get it. A lot of her personal success probably has to do with privacy and being comfortable with herself.

Making teen girls come is tricky. Don't feel inadequate if it ain't happening; this is the default condition. You dudes that seem to have it down with your current girlfriend, kudos to you, but you might find it daunting that the same techniques don't work on another girl.

A girl has to be comfortable to let herself go. Once a girl is aware that a guy is "trying" to make her come, this becomes a distraction. The girl might find herself caught in a mindset along the lines of "I will have an orgasm! I will!" But, the body becomes even more recalcitrant and doesn't deliver. This is frustrating for all involved.

Some girls need continuous, contstant stimulation that is difficult for most guys to keep up. You may not be aware of changes in your technique, but she is. You might bring her close, but a slight change in pressure or location of your tongue and/or fingers will thwart an impending orgasm.

So practice. And practice and practice. It's still fun. In no time, y'all will find the right combo of circumstances.

quote:Originally posted by Stuff:

Dont you listen to loveline? A lot of girls in their teens cants orgasm... Dont remember why atm .. but they just .. dont.

bullshit. this is only true for some girls. when i took my current gf's virgintiy, she had 20+ orgasms.

I guess it's just different for different girls.

quote:Originally posted by GankeR 7:

bullshit. this is only true for some girls. when i took my current gf's virgintiy, she had 20+ orgasms.

I guess it's just different for different girls.

20+ ???

At one time???

C'mon man, you gotta be kidding me...

Oh yea, and is it true that not all girls can cum even though they acheive orgasms?

dont ask me how she did it...like i said some girls are just like that, most arent.

i always ask her about it, and she swears she lost count after 20.

and no...the werent all at the same time...they were spaced out over about an hour

all i can say is that i guess i'm a really lucky guy :D

turn into a shower massager

quote:Originally posted by GankeR 7:

bullshit. this is only true for some girls. when i took my current gf's virgintiy, she had 20+ orgasms.

I guess it's just different for different girls.

Bahahhahahaa 20+.

First of all 20 would be practically impossible to achieve, especially in an hour.

Secondly, IT WAS HER FIRST TIME. Listen virgin-boy, there is this thing called the hymen, it breaks a girls first time causing pain.

I shouldn't even bother going on, you probably can't even understand proper grammer anyways.



Shek

get her high, it sounds rude but it works (in some cases)... it did it for my girl

shek...lay off

ALL GIRLS ARE DIFFERENT

I experienced what I experienced. NO LIE!

i'f you've never had such an experience, i pitty you, otherwise stay out of what you know nothing about

quote:Originally posted by GankeR 7:

shek...lay off

ALL GIRLS ARE DIFFERENT

I experienced what I experienced. NO LIE!

i'f you've never had such an experience, i pitty you, otherwise stay out of what you know nothing about

Listen Jackass, you can't even make complete sentences. I doubt everything you say. I don't know why you are here, nothing you say has had any value.

As for your "pitty" for me, being unable to give my girlfriend 20+ orgasms, it's well needed.

By the way hun, pitty is an adjective describing something "full of pits".



Shek

will you please stop trying to start fights.

no need to insult someone because of their grammar. i could do the same to you, but i don't

what i say is the truth - period

i have no reason to lie about myself.

if you cant take my word for it, thats your problem.

just stop being an ass

quote:Originally posted by GankeR 7:

i always ask her about it, and she swears she lost count after 20.



im sorry, but this just sounds like bullshit.

quote:origionally posted by don corleaone:

Oh yea, and is it true that not all girls can cum even though they acheive orgasms?

cuming is having an orgasm. when speaking about a girl anyways. some girls squirt, if that's what you mean, but not a ton do that.

quote:Originally posted by EyeSore:

cuming is having an orgasm. when speaking about a girl anyways. some girls squirt, if that's what you mean, but not a ton do that.

ahh yea man...that's what I meant... It's cos my current gf was a virgin and we've been having sex for just over a month now and even though I know she's getting orgasms, I don't, er,... see anything...Even when I went down on her(which I happen to enjoy tremendously by the way) and direct clitical stimulation (I don't know if that's what you call it but I'm sure you get my drift) was very much involved..

Well anyways, yea man...I read up somewhere that not all girls can squirt but I wasn't sure about the exact details... Was beginning to think I had lost it or something.

I may not be giving her 20+ orgasms but at least I know I'm getting somewhere...

Thanks, and

Cheers

Ganker,when I lost my virginity my bf thought I was coming too because I was moaning etc,but it was just the pain.The idiot went faster and needless to say,that didn't help...

Lucky her if she did come 20 times though

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Alot of women have problems orgasming you just have to keep pumping her no matter what the pain and sooner or later she will let a roar.And if you keep doing it you will get used to the pain and she will orgasm quicker.But you also may not be stimulating her enough and you may need to try a good sex position like reverse cowgirl which will let her control the speed of the entry of your cock into her and it stimulates her and you self much more.

THATS SUCKS!!!! I get my girl off a few times every time we do it!! theres a bunch of little tricks I know. I dont feel like writing them all now but my msn is ryan5439@yahoo.com MSG ME AND WE WILL TALK

i <3 people with overconfidence in their abilities.

Did you try our advice?

Try not only focusing on her pussy, rub her all over too. My girl loves it when I suck on her nipples and grab her ass. I've given her orgasms without even going lower than her belly button. It was awesome, she was bucking against me and everything.

Remember he said that she masterbates only once every 2 weeks but she never puts her fingers inside?Well that could be the problem she is probably not used to you having your dick inside and it delays her orgasm.

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quote:Originally posted by Prince Charming:

Bahahhahahaa 20+.

First of all 20 would be practically impossible to achieve, especially in an hour.

Secondly, IT WAS HER FIRST TIME. Listen virgin-boy, there is this thing called the hymen, it breaks a girls first time causing pain.

I shouldn't even bother going on, you probably can't even understand proper grammer anyways.



Shek

That "every virgin woman has a hymen" myth is so archaic I can't believe anyone still goes by it. A lot of women experience pain their first times because of their hymens breaking. HOWEVER, you will find that a lot of women were born without a hymen, a partial one, it dissolves, or it had already broken gradually over the years. Take it from an actual woman, it doesn't HAVE to hurt the first time.

20 orgasms, eh? Where's my bullshit detector. If it was her first time, how did she even know what an orgasm was? For example, when I have an orgasm, I know that its just one orgasm. However, she may have thought that each... shall we say, "convulsion" was a separate orgasm in itself. Either she's mistaken, or she wants to make you feel like a big man.