What are your thoughts and methods of preventing it. I had a bad experience from when I was younger and it has been haunting me ever since causing me problems. Help is to be appreciated.

I hate it when you're beating off and unexpectidly you start jizzing. You quickly reach for some tissue and when you return you've missed the orgasm. All that's left is a hand covered in sperm with nothing to show for it.

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Take Care,

Kangy

think of something nasty when you think you're about to cum.

My problem I had when I was younger was like I didn't even whip my dick out. I was makin out with her and feelin her up and I lose my irrection. I found out later it just all sorta came out. I didn't even realize it when it happened :\. It has haunted me ever since.

First of all, how old are you? Cause experience will make you better at it. Forget the past, that sort of shit happens to everybody. Don't revolve your life around it. The fact that you didn't have to whip it out means she's hotter than.....uhmmm well, you know what I mean. Seriously....if you really like her, and she does you...then tell her the truth. Just say somethin like. Well I know I told you I was experienced and all but I was a making it up. Tell her you're her first and then whatever mistakes you make are automatically forgiven.

Im 16. I haven't been intimate with very many chicks. She is a fox tho. I just don't want to embarasse(sp?) myself :\ .

quote:Originally posted by ---Beany---:

I hate it when you're beating off and unexpectidly you start jizzing. You quickly reach for some tissue and when you return you've missed the orgasm. All that's left is a hand covered in sperm with nothing to show for it.

Serously thats unlucky, its worse if it gets on the floor though. Thinking about old ladies probaly works to stop prem ejaculation.

quote:Originally posted by ---Beany---:

I hate it when you're beating off and unexpectidly you start jizzing. You quickly reach for some tissue and when you return you've missed the orgasm. All that's left is a hand covered in sperm with nothing to show for it.

heheh..so true..

Shittie

if you're worried about it, get extended pleasure condoms. ya know, trojan should pay me. i talk about these in every other thread anymore. this is seriously like the 15th time i've suggested them.

You ever have to pee really bad, but for some reason, you hold it, or stop mid-stream? Try doing that, but during sex. Helps stretch things out a little, though I've heard others have had mixed results.

I've heard that if you spank it before hand.... that you'll perform better. That pee pee thing is on the right track. Check it....If you have to go pee, your body will not, actually can not pee with a sexually aroused hard on. It'll never happen! So now take that basic theory and turn it so that you have to pee before you start doin it. That'll delay your climax, thereby making you a hero. hahahaha

quote:Originally posted by LwaysTired:

I've heard that if you spank it before hand.... that you'll perform better. That pee pee thing is on the right track. Check it....If you have to go pee, your body will not, actually can not pee with a sexually aroused hard on. It'll never happen! So now take that basic theory and turn it so that you have to pee before you start doin it. That'll delay your climax, thereby making you a hero. hahahaha

what? that makes no sense.

You having trouble understanding?? Well no wonder, your eyez are sore...

PAY ATTENTION!! When you have a hard on, like because of sexual stimuli, it is physicaly impossible to pee!! Get it. Your body will not allow both to flow together (ie.CUM and PISS) so if ya gotta pee, you ain't gonna cum..right???

quote:Originally posted by LwaysTired:

Your body will not allow both to flow together (ie.CUM and PISS) so if ya gotta pee, you ain't gonna cum..right???

no. thats not how it works. when your flacid penis fills with blood, the ureters have a valve that is forced closed. meaning, that when you have a hard on, you can't pee. but it doesn't work both ways, if you have to piss, it might distract you, or give you discomfort, but it won't keep you from ejaculating. it just doesn't work that way.

Right on Eyes...you know a little more of the technical stuff than I. The fact still remains...YOU CAN'T PEE AND CUM AT THE SAME TIME. Sheesh, weather it's cause of a ureters valve that is forced closed...or a distraction, it'll work.

I've always found that being relaxed is the most important thing. I had it for a while, but then it just went. I put it down to being relaxed.

Anyways, if you're always worrying about shooting sharpish then you arent going to enjoy it are you.

R-E-L-A-X

quote:Originally posted by EyeSore:

if you're worried about it, get extended pleasure condoms. ya know, trojan should pay me. i talk about these in every other thread anymore. this is seriously like the 15th time i've suggested them.

These things are great i also give them my recomendation. sence i started using them my sex life has gotten 10x better...w00t

quote:Originally posted by GankeR 7:

These things are great i also give them my recomendation. sence i started using them my sex life has gotten 10x better...w00t

personally, i don't like them at all. i've used them several times, and was only able to finish in one once. i usually get so frustrated with the lack of feeling (as opposed to no condom) that i just take it off half way through.

Are those trojans just super thick or what. I have nefver seen them.Or do they have some sort of topical analgesic in them to numb it up. I dont know about this one but I had a friend would put anbesol gel in his pee hole befoe having sex and he claimed it worked wonders for him until this girl went to give him head and her tongue got numb. After this she obviously new were his inane staming came from. Back when I first stared having sex I was on the fire department and taking classes to get my EMT certification.Anyway my fellow fireman gave me some 10% benzocaine out of the ambulance. A lot of the firemen were doing this and so I tried with my next girlfriend. It was awful because it got so numb I was scared I would lose my erection cause I couldnt feel any stimulation. But I was okay and had the stamina of a damn mule. Got her off several times but I could not cum. After 2o minutes of doggy style I gave up and never used it again.

Wow...10% benzocane might be alittle much, it also matters how liberally you use it.

The trojenz contain a measured amount of a 4% benzocane lubricant. Obviously they did some testing or something to determine what the optimal percentage and amount is.

It also matters how sensitive you normally are. if you normally last a long time with a regular condom, the extended pleasure condoms might totally desensitize you so that you done come at all.

quote:Originally posted by GankeR 7:

It also matters how sensitive you normally are. if you normally last a long time with a regular condom, the extended pleasure condoms might totally desensitize you so that you done come at all.

This made me think... if you've got a girl with enough stamina, you might be well-served to try this once in a while. Lay back and let her ride you as long as she wants. Chances are very slim you'll be so de-sensitized that you lose your erection. All you have to make sure of is that she's careful not to slip and.. well.. that's been discussed already.