Here's the scoop. I fell in love with a girl who means everything to me and is everything I want in a girl. So we got to the sex part...that was great.So what's the fucking problem? Well...when we first started dating she told me that she got pregnant once(9 months ago) and miscaried 2 months into pregnancy and she hates the guy with all her guts and shit like that.Now thing is,apparently her pregnancy caused those weird spots,like discoloration,on her skin right in the breasts area.So now when I see her naked all I notice are those spots and I start to think about how much I wanna kill that guy and basicly that kills my mood almost instantly.That bastarts is a fuckng low life.Can't have sex with her without thinking about it. This really blows...I can't even think about how to deal with it...it's right there between her tits!

Turn off the lights.

Just confront the bastard and get it over with.

quote:Originally posted by Kakkaraun:

Just confront the bastard and get it over with.

Depending on your definition of 'confront', that could lead to very unhappy things.

Just turn off the lights when you get intimate.

yeh, just switch the lights off man, s'all good. and only confront the guy. don't bring along a gang incase a fight might break out, 'cus it will more likely happen. just go alone if you're gonna. I dunno. I know i'm not much help

Im pretty much in the same position as you Twistey. Im not going to go into my girlfriends past though because she visits here sometimes. Well anyway the moral of the story is... Well theres no moral, as there was not much of a story.

Im not going to tell you just to ignore it, because you can't. If your girlfriend doesn't mind, batter this bloke. I don't know how things will be solved, but i feel they will

its her own fault...she shouldnt of got pregnant in the 1st place

quote:Originally posted by luketalbot99:

its her own fault...she shouldnt of got pregnant in the 1st place



Luke talbot is the biggest asshole on totse... period...

She came up with a good one!! I've never heard of a girl getting spots on her boobs from having been pregnant or miscarrying!! Sounds like your GF has some kind of gig going in her imagination just so she can perpetuate her hate of the guy (probably hates him NOT because he got her pregnant, but because he didn't hang with her after that!!). Anyway, by having some boob spots (which she was probably born with anyway) to attribute to him, she can (happinly?) perpetuate her hatred toward him by looking at the spots anytime she wants. Some girls come up with gigs like that to guaranty their memory will stay fresh and never die----because it should have died a long time ago!!! It's like a convenient permanent "handicap" thing. Don't let yourself get sucked into it!!...Except maybe physically.. (hee hee)!! Love, Venus.

Pinay beat me to it. I won't say your girl is lying, but I won't assume she's telling the truth, either. There are a lot of potential holes in her story.

Of course, how is that supposed to help you ignore the spots? I'm not sure what to say. You're letting yourself be overcome by anger, which is your problem, no one else's. You're allowing what this guy (supposedly) did to destroy your enjoyment of sex, and in turn hers as well. They're a part of her now, for whatever reason, and your two choices are to let it tear your brain apart or deal with that fact and, if you believe what she's saying, patiently await the opportunity to pay the guy back for what he did to her. Period.

quote:Originally posted by pretty pinay:

She came up with a good one!! I've never heard of a girl getting spots on her boobs from having been pregnant or miscarrying!! (hee hee)!!

I was thinking the same thing...

1) beat up other guy

2) see girlfriend

3) turn lights off

4) fuck

easy as that mate!

You beat us all to it, pinay...

I wonder if she even got pregnant. Maybe she's trying to distract you with that guy for some reason. Maybe she can't have children and she doesn't want you to think she's less of a woman.

i suppose you could turn her around...