Its almost like that saying I've heard before, when trying to get away from reality you end up with more than you can handle. I've liked a girl, and denied it for so long because of my current situation, it would only make me fall apart more to like her. I think I've made the best choice in doing that, but I see her face in my mind more and more often. I'm not sure if or how I can get my mind off of her. We won't be together, I can almost promise you that.

Any suggestions to forget her?

So, what is your current situation?

How can you guarantee that you could never be together?

Why are you falling appart to begin with?

Do you really have a good reason to forget her? Because all you should need to get beyond having a crush on someone is a good enough reason not to... your common sense and reasoning will do the rest... so if her face still keeps popping into your mind then maybe you really don't have a good enough reason to forget her?

[This message has been edited by Sarcophagus (edited 08-18-2003).]

ummmm i agree

Hang out with friends if you really want to forget her, it'll take your mind off of her/

Remember though that you could be passing up a really good relationship.

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

What is your current situation?

How can you guarantee that you could never be together?

Why are you falling appart to begin with?



Answer those 3 questions and it will be easier to help.





[This message has been edited by DarkFire47 (edited 08-18-2003).]

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

So, what is your current situation?

How can you guarantee that you could never be together?

Why are you falling appart to begin with?



I've decided to figure it out myself, but why not have outside opinions and suggestions?

Well my current "situation"-

She lives in a different town than I am.. separated by a long road of asphalt and another town...

I dont have any transportation other than my feet and a bike. Walking on my hands for that long might seem freakish to bystanders.

I've already "shot myself down" and I know I will most likely never even see her again nevermind go out with her unless she is drunk and puking green stuff. Shooting myself down.. meaning I'm a fucking moron.

Basically this is a thing of the past and I want to flush it out with a beer bong. Hanging with friends would be great, but right now I have none.

Looks like I need to get some. I dont want to list my life story so I'll shutup now.

Yeah bro, you need to figure some of your own shit out first. You sound confused. I didn't really understand any of what you wrote in your last reply there. She's in another town...big deal, ride the bus, build a gas powered scooter, roller blade. Ya get it? But don't go doing anything extreme or time consuming until you're ready. Got it?

quote:Originally posted by LwaysTired:

Yeah bro, you need to figure some of your own shit out first. You sound confused. I didn't really understand any of what you wrote in your last reply there. She's in another town...big deal, ride the bus, build a gas powered scooter, roller blade. Ya get it? But don't go doing anything extreme or time consuming until you're ready. Got it?

In basic chasing her would be stupid. I just need something to do so I don't dwell on this stupid shit.

I think I'll be fine for now. Independence only lasts so long, but I'd still like a friend or two.