Last night, there was a girl that was staying the night here. She was awesome. Alot like me in some ways. Anyways, we start hanging out and then hanging out turned into cuddling, then cuddling turned in to kissing.. and then you know. Well, anyways after everything is done and we are laying there and I give her a kiss goodnight, she starts saying all this shit like Oh My God and stuff like that. Then she busts out with the "Hey, I am not attracted to you. Me and you, I just don't see it." So I just got totally shot out of the sky. Anyways, since last night after she told me that I thought alot to myself. I really like this girl and I know she likes me but there is this other dude that she is nott even with. I don't know. I want to tell her how I really feel, but I don't know if it would be a big wasted of time. She is here till about 1-3 today so like any suggestions that I can get in the next hour or two would be great. Thanks.

you could either:

a)wiat until you testicals descend before you make a move

or b) just tell her. jesus. get some confidence man.

Does she know you have a girlfriend? That could have prompted the reaction. Maybe the kiss goodnight touched off a nerve of fear that you would assume you two are a thing now. You say she likes you, but that doesn't necessarily mean she wants to date you.

Before you go dropping all your feelings on her, ask her what the deal was with what she did. That will probably give you a good place to start from. If all she does is say, "I don't know," and look stressed, then you can still tell her, just be low-key about it. Making it sound like too big of a deal will make her feel more pressure and will more than likely fuck things up worse.

[This message has been edited by Spiffy McBang (edited 08-05-2003).]

Thank you very much Spiffy. She does not know that I have a Girlfriend. I told her that I did not have one. But, I would definitley cut off whatever I have with my girlfriend to be with this girl. She is perfect in every way possible. Thank you for the advice man.