well god knows ive tried everything else so girls, tell me whats the sweetest thing a guy can or have done for u? write a poem? do something special what?

Are you naturally an asshole who does the odd sweet thing once in a while?

Just curious

"That's easy you just have to find the clitoris"

Chef- South Park

Tell her she's beautiful and you love her.

no im not the asshole who does the odd sweet things once in a while!! beany! just coz u have a tiny penis and huge testicles doesnt mean u can take it out on me :P

on a more serious note... (beany's penis = not serious, joke. get it? lol i get it) anything more than she's beautiful and you love her???? even though that's simple and good idea none the less..

Send a single red rose to her house.

Girls like romantic stuff. Like meals,walks e.t.c. Dont be overly sweet, like your trying to hard, but equally dont be as "blokey"- altho some girls like that. Just be yourself!

quote:Originally posted by vodka_jade:

Girls like romantic stuff. Like meals,walks e.t.c.

Are you dropping a hint or two jade?

quote:Originally posted by Lewneedsrs:

Are you dropping a hint or two jade?

Hmmmm,not exactly. But an equal balance would be nice!

quote:Originally posted by Thehurricane:

no im not the asshole who does the odd sweet things once in a while!! beany! just coz u have a tiny penis and huge testicles doesnt mean u can take it out on me :P





I was attempting to get to the bottom of your troubles.

Dude you got a negative thought process. Perhaps that's the cause of your female concerns.

my girlfriend couldn't believe i didn't just fuck her, have a smoke and roll over and sleep!

she says me staying awake, cuddling her and talking to her after sex is the most romantic thing she's ever had!

weird!

Take her on a walk that ends somewhere with cool scenery. Try to get it so both of you can sneak out and watch the sunrise or sunset wherever you are in the world. Can't help much more than that I don't have this problem I'm and asshole but when it comes to my girlfriends I'm the nicest guy.

True romance cannot be planned. But there are plenty of people who think that think a meal with a rose is romantic. To me it's fake.

quote:Originally posted by Beany:

True romance cannot be planned. But there are plenty of people who think that think a meal with a rose is romantic. To me it's fake.



yeh, there are no steps to making any girl in the world think you're sweet, its not really something you can nail down like that... you just have what it takes to make someone happy, or you don't... there is no specific THING you can do to be sweet because each and every girl is unique and so is their idea of "romantic" and "sweet" so you pretty much have to get to know them and discover the particular things that make THEM feel special on an individual basis.

See, my dad gave my mum a belt sander for valentines day a few years back... she LOVED it, it was the perfect gift for her... it was romantic because he knew her well enough to get something she really loved...

A perfect gift for me is equally as strange, if my love gave me a 100gb hard drive for my computer I'd be over the moon.

Love is intangible, you can't control it or mold it to your will. Romance is a byproduct of love and is equally mysterious, its all trial and error so just keep at it... pay more attention to what she/they love, be creative.

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personally i think sweet guys are a turn off, but whatever, you could try:

Taking her to the beach.

Asking her what she wants to do, and doing it, no complaints.

In general thinking of her needs before yours.

Just be nice.Find out what she likes and use that, good luck.



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the sexiest thing is to be greeted by being thrown on a bed or a couch or to a wall and being made out with. Its just so passionate...Yum. That is sweetest thing a guy can do.

Sweetest thing, do you mean in the traditional sense? Cuz I'd feel really uncomfortable if a guy ever took me to the beach or gave me a rose or anything. I wouldn't know how the hell to respond. Sweet things are just stopping randomly and telling her she's beautiful, putting your arm around her, just showing her you care, all that bollocks.

Sexiest thing- when he shoves me up against a wall and holds me there. Easy. But kissing my neck comes in a close second... maybe combine them.

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

the sexiest thing is to be greeted by being thrown on a bed or a couch or to a wall and being made out with. Its just so passionate...Yum. That is sweetest thing a guy can do.

i love you.

The whole kissing shit is good, but it's not really practical in my situation.

What do you do to show a girl who is still semi-hung up on an old boyfriend that you really like her, and care about her more than anything?

If I did that kissing shit...I'd probably wake up on the floor.

Leave.

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:



Romance is a byproduct of love

Romance is love in motion.

i don't know about any other girls but mine loves it when I'm helping her stand up off of like a couch or a bed and I just pull her close and kiss her when she least expects it. I try to be a spontaneous as possible with her, and she seems to love it.

get her one of these http://www.romanceher.com/goldroses.htm?AID=5542349&PID=1115058

she will love you to death

[QUOTE]Originally posted by opti7storm:

get her one of these http://www.romanceher.com/goldroses.htm?AID=5542349&PID=1115058

she will love you to death[/QUOTE

there gorgeous,yes,she definately would love you!

Get a rose entombed in a diamond obelisk.

let her go on top.

Hmmmmmmm, it seems to me that girls are all very different in thier "tastes" in guys. You know, some like the "nice guy" while others opt for the more...ass. Everyone has a totally different idea of what sweet is and some people dont even like sweet.

P.S. - I hope you dont plan on giving her a golden rose on the first date.

if someone gave me a golden rose, i would probably pee myself laughing.

in your situation, spend a good amount of time doing something nice for her. She will appreciate it more, and it will be sweeter. Write her a poem or something

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

if someone gave me a golden rose, i would probably pee myself laughing.

Same here, if a guy gave me that I would be disgusted and totaly disapointed that he didn't know me well enough to know that I would think that a gold rose is about the most whorey thing ever... if you rip off other people's ideas you'll only end up looking pathetic because its pretty obvious that other people DON'T know your girlfriend!

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

if someone gave me a golden rose, i would probably pee myself laughing.



yeah, umm... i'd probably do the same... pee myself laughing and ditch him.

BUT, surprise her. damn, if some guy was thoughtful enough to surprise me-- even with something really simple like a dinner or whatever-- i'd love him for forever.

give her a good orgasm. i don't know any girls that wouldn't like that.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

[B]if someone gave me a golden rose, i would probably pee myself laughing.



But if you were dating someone for over 3 months, and you were both serious, this is what I would do. Actually I have done it, but we have been going for 6 months.

You could care for her, and listen when she speaks.

quote:Originally posted by Apoxyus:

[QUOTE]Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

[B]if someone gave me a golden rose, i would probably pee myself laughing.



But if you were dating someone for over 3 months, and you were both serious, this is what I would do. Actually I have done it, but we have been going for 6 months.

ok, but that makes no sense... you would just do that for ANY girl? No matter what she was like? Lets just take a trip down hypothetical road for a moment, say you met a girl similiar to myself, and after 6 months you had a pretty serious relationship going on... if you gave this gold rose as your trademark gift to this chick it would be a HUGE mistake 'cause if she's anything similiar to me (and other chicks on this very board) then she'd absolutely hate it... you can't just do something that YOU think is cool and expect it to work, you have to look at things from the girl's perspective to figure out if she'd really enjoy the things you do for her.

It is only "the thought that counts" when you're thinking of HER as an individual and what she would like... not every girl in the world would like this gold rose thing, its NOT beautiful, its fucking ugly...

bight a bitch on the neck and tiger fuck her.

Suggust a threesome.

Oh wait, isn't that a guy's dream of what a girl should do?

Or maybe it's just me...

Always put her first, always put yourself second....with everything, small things to big things. Little things add up...

Get the rose, and bend it into a artistic shape (like a happy face, or a sad clown).

Then give it to her, with before and after pictures, and ask which one looks better.

That should make any girl laugh... or punch you.

Teach yourself how to cook, if you're real lazy, specialize in one particular meal (mine's chicken alfredo).

If you know she's having a bad day at work, have your secret weapon ready to eat just as she gets home. If she doesn't appreciate it and/or fuck you BLIND, dump the bitch.

The subconscious (and practical) parallels between cooking and sex are huge.