alrighty well heres the deal, I had been going out with this guy for about 6 months and we were having some problems and so i finnally ended it all. but that doesnt mean i dont still have feelings for him because i do and he knows that and he has feelings for me too. its been about a month since we have been apart and i am not sure but i think i want to be with him, i just dont want to have more problems. any helpful hints or advice?

GET THE HELL BACK WITH HIM!!

if it was a problem that has been resolved, and you both like eachother, then what the FUCK is keeping you apart? especially when you were together for 6 months. that a fair ammount of time these days. crap. just dont stay apart anymore. theres no reason to. GO! now!

Jesus man, put down the fourth cup of joe. She didn't say anything about whether or not the problems were resolved.

Speaking of which, that seems to be the key factor in all this, no? These random, unnamed issues in your relationship caused it to break down, despite the fact you still have feelings for each other. If you can get those taken care of, then by all means hook up again. But don't re-enter a situation that's doomed to fail for the exact same reason(s).

the best way to deal with it that i can see is to talk this out with him.

talk to him...set some rules for each other regarding your former problems and get back together.

then just take it from there.

go for it. you only live once. what's the worst that can happen? it doesn't work and you don't end up together? well if you don't go for it, that's what'll happen anyways.

Ok, well you were with the guy for 6 months. That's kind of a long time. A long enough time for you to get attached. So, of course you are going o have feelings for eachother. If it has been a month and you both still like eachother then I see no reason why you shouldn't give it another shot. I mean, what could it hurt? Try again. Sometimes the best thing for a relationship is a break.