Me broke up with girlfriend...i really like her but just didnt feel right breaking up with her and im not sure I wanna get back together with her...

*pointless, close whenever*

Well if you're not sure about getting back together, maybe you should not. Just put the past behind you and stay friends with her.

I have a few questions for you. Don't take offense to them and if you don't want to answer them that is fine.

1)How old are you guys

2)How long have you been together

3)Why did you break up with her in the first place? If you didn't feel right about it what caused you to make that decision

4)Could you possible be afraid of getting back with her because of a fear of commitment and/or being hurt?

Take Care,

Kangy

Been there. I was in something like that recently. She wanted to get back togethere, I didn't.

Just a bit of advice (which everyone ignores, and I wish I hadn't ignored) don't have sex after the breakup. You will both just get hurt and it usualy leads to a big messy situation.

Kangy says exactly what you need. If you are really serious and you are a bit older than 14 than maybe you should consider it. It is up to you man.

quote:Originally posted by Apoxyus:

Kangy says exactly what you need. If you are really serious and you are a bit older than 14 than maybe you should consider it. It is up to you man.

Since when was 14 the right age to be involved in a really serious relationship? I don't agree with playing the field, but I most certainly believe that 14 is way way waaaaay too young to try and cope with all the emotional ups and downs of a serious relationship... 14 is about having fun, christ... 14 is WAY too young to have your heart broken, you get fucked up if you mess with girls when you're 14! What is wrong with kids these days. They're turning into drama queens and making life so much more complex and difficult than it already is... wtf *sigh*

Hah, I am 14.

Its not really a broken heart, im just not sure if we/I made the right descision here.

I'm fourteen too, why does everyone have to diss us? It seems every flame has the phrase "14-yr old" in it. ....

its NOT a dis, i don't even know how it was taken that way... there is NO reason to put down a person for being a certain age... I hate it when people do that...

I'm just saying if you're 14 you need to frikkin RELAX, you are going to have to deal with the INSANE SHIT that girls put guys through for the REST of your LIFE dudes... there is absolutely NO logical reason why you want to go rushing into the mind games that are 14 year old girls.... they're ALL headcases at that age, and pretty much so are you... but you'll be that way until you're at least 30 so no worries.

Now is the time to enjoy your freedom, live it up as single dudes, do male bonding with your buddies, concentrate on the FUN things... not pussy, pussy and the things you will start to do for pussy will FUCK YOU UP and the longer you put off getting down and dirty with the "fairer" sex the better off you'll be.

And if you think I'm encouraging anyone to be a 30 year old virgin then you're not understanding me, the longer you wait and the more mature you are when you start getting into serious relationships with chicks the better you'll be at it, therefore the tail will be yours for the taking.