do i have a right to get pissed at someone for telling his friends the 'weird' kinky stuff we were doing in bed? or should i let it go?

*shrug* well you can't undo it now, so you might as well let it go, but if you don't like it that he blabbed then just make it clear to him that it WON'T happen again...

[This message has been edited by Sarcophagus (edited 07-29-2003).]

Of course you have the right; they are your emotions; use them as you see fit. The question you have to ask is if that will get you where you want to be.

they should of asked you first. If you said it was ok then there ya go. But yeah i would say you have the right to be pissed all you want.

quote:Originally posted by spookytwilight:

do i have a right to get pissed at someone for telling his friends the 'weird' kinky stuff we were doing in bed? or should i let it go?

You should dump his ass.

I'm all for wierd kinky stuff, and I tell no one, baby. t's just between you and me *wink*.

All kidding aside, you really should have expected it. I know that the first time I got laid I told EVERYBODY(and half of them didn't believe me).

Yes you have a right to be pissed, but maybe you should let it go. Afterall, it eventually turns into "big deal, who HASN'T done that?"

Well, what did he say? If you haven't talked about it already, I'd generally say allow some leeway and tell him the things you don't want shared, but mainly it comes down to how detailed of a description he gave. Saying he tied you up is pretty tame. Telling everyone the dirty shit you screamed as your wrists and ankles strained against velcro straps while he broke out the chocolate syrup and whipped cream and had himself a clit sundae might be cause for reasonable anger.

find out all the details first. Then decide if its worth it.

really.... why give a fuck? everyone who heard about it is probably jealous anyway