whenever i greet my chick-friends, i give them a hug, or double-cheeck them or something. i do it cuz their my friends and im nice (not to cop a feel, like some greeting rapists [grapes!])

now, my question is, can someone tell me the body positioning, timing, motions, and everything else so i can distinguish a "hi" hug, from a "i want you" hug? i just want to make it clear what my intentions are when i hug them... thx

ts

I want you hug:

Shrug your shoulders foward and when you are pushed up against her tits, bring your shoulders all the way back, this will cause your torso to flex and play with her tits. pelvises touching I do this a lot

Friendly hug: One arm up around her neck loosely and one in the center of her back under her arm. Pelvises 6" or more apart

that was my big thing. how far up should i begin touching her? like should i lean in on it, or go full body?

they always seem to reach AROUND my neck, so i go for the two arms around her back, roughly near her bra-line or so

and this is kinda weird, but what should i do if i go to greet one of my chick friends GRAPES me when i go to hug her? do i push her away to space us for that hug or just go with it? also, ive had a few strange occasions when ill be sitting there on a couch or something, and she will come up and sit on my lap. waht do i do THEN? let her, or tell her to get off, or laugh like its a joke or WHAT? ack, my head hurts...

ts

Just along with it. Pull her off to the side and ask her if she likes you or some shit like that.



What ablout hugging your guy friends good-bye when you won't see them for about 6 months?

What I wanna know is, why do msot girls swoosh their bodies left to right when you hug them? What is that all about?

well, i have like almost NO guy friend (NO, i am NOT gay!!). i just dont seem to get along with em as well. i dont hug greet them, i do one of those "cool" handshakes. if i DO ever hug them, like theyre gone for 6 months or whatever, its the one where you grasp hands and its more of like a pat on the back with the other arm. not the same kinds og hugs i give my chick-friends.

and girls swoosh their bodys from side to side because they like the feeling of their boobs rubbing agains you

haha, really, tho, i have no idea, but ive noticed it too!

ts

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ts

You could talk about the first thing that "pops" up...

[This message has been edited by Azachata (edited 07-29-2003).]

Just dont get too excited..she mite start levitating

quote:Originally posted by jumpunderaboat:

Just dont get too excited..she mite start levitating

HAHAHA!!! That's great..

When she sits on your lap out of nowhere, just say,

"You're asking for me to pitch a tent, aren't you.."

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

Sorry everyone...

i like to always give the flirty big guy bear hug. you know, it's comforting and girls (friends and, umm, otherwise) love that. just reach around them with both arms by the back of her bra, squeeze firmlym, tightly, but gently enough that you dont hurt her, and lift her off her feet.

quote:Originally posted by Syntex:

What I wanna know is, why do msot girls swoosh their bodies left to right when you hug them? What is that all about?

heh, they're trying to avoid your boner poking into them

Heh, you've got me wondering whether I Swoosh now!

Are you trying to give a girl "I want you" hugs cos you well...want her, or d'ya think lap-girl is hitting on you?

just tell them when you feel something differnt about them, that you like them. works for me i bet it would work for you.

lol, I don't get boners from hugging people (specially with guys). I just wanna know why girls do that because well.. its sometimes annoying like shit.

But other times, its just ...i dunno?

Perhaps a "I want you hug" is a longer, firmer hug than a "hi" hug. A boner is a sign of a "Hi I want you" hug too .