someones gonna get killed and it aint me - ok here is the deal.

My friend liked this girl, she goes to our school and he had something going on with her though i didnt know what exactly (as in i didnt know how their relationship was) they werent together though he said that he would get her.

I was pretty attracted to her and talked to her a couple of times but since my friend liked her i kept my distance since i didnt wanna... well you know -

anyway so 2 days ago was my last schoolday (i live in germany) so i thought "aw i really want to get to know her" so i asked her for her number and sure enough the next evening we talked for 4 hours.... she is the sweetest nicest most beautiful girl i have ever known... anyway... i really just wanted to spend time with her because she is just great... in every way - i forgot to mention, in 3 weeks im leaving back for the us to go to school there so i didnt/dont have much time.

So it was obvious that i wouldnt get together with her i just wanted to know her... i dont know if you know this feeling but just even talking to her satisfies you because you respect her. Anyway so today we were chatting on icq and suddenly shes like *boom* shes all like "forget it" "leave me alone" "you are such an asshole" im like.... what the fuck - i have no clue what the hell is wrong... my supposed soulmate hits me in the face just like that. I, for the first time in my life have the balls to do what i think i must do and call her up (this i thought was only for machos whereas i noticed that you dont have any problem doing it if you really care about the person) so i call her and just want to know whats wrong - what i did or said... so the whole time shes all like "just forget it ok?" and so this goes on and she tells me that someone told her about something i said about her... i assure her that i never said anything bad about her to anyone so since i havent talked about her to many of my friends it is obivous that my alleged "friend" chris must have told her something - so finally i crack her and she tells me that he told her i had said that I only wanted to use her.. fuck her and leave for america.. he told her that since i hadnt gotten to fuck lili (this other girl i "liked" as in.. was attracted to) she was second choice and i just wanted to bone her.

i was so fucking pissed... not pissed but shocked... shocked that the person i thought was my friend would go to such lengths to blow it for me... I swore her that i never said anything like this... and that i really cared about her and that even if nothing happened just talking to her made me happy...

I was just so dissapointed... She made me promiss not to say anything to chris... but its very hard - this ...jealous son of a crackwhore... i would so like to fuck him up man - the only girl i have ever cared about for real... and he fucks it up.

I told her that it was ok if she didnt want to be with me but i just didnt want her to think i was that sort of person you know what i mean ? I just dont want the person i care about to think that i was just out to get pussy...

of course she doesnt know who to believe now...

anyone got any ideas ?

Bros before ho's man...if your friend liked her, and you knew it, you shouldn't have tried anything with her.

Did you see the part where he said he wasn't really trying anything? Even if he did, his friend would be equally wrong at best for trying to backstab him.

That's if he did. Some people are evil, man, and do it behind a pretty face. She asked you not to talk to Chris? Fuck that. You need to. Keep it simple, no reason to fill your last few weeks there with more drama than necessary. I know you want to believe this girl is telling the truth, and in all likelihood, she is, but don't just assume that's the case. Find out for yourself. Maybe he'll step up in your face and admit to it, but if he says no, it'll probably be apparent if he's lying or not. Most people aren't that good at bullshitting about this stuff at your age, especially guys.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

- i forgot to mention, in 3 weeks im leaving back for the us to go to school there so i didnt/dont have much time.



you blew her off she really liked you and you just left her. and tell her wasnt true it was just a rumor and if she dont belive you, tell her what kind of freind is she.

[This message has been edited by Latin1052 (edited 07-25-2003).]

Your 'friend' isnt one..

Violence solves nothing but might make you feel better in the short term, in this case he needs a jolly good 'cock punching'

-JUMP-

first off - she aint a ho, bitch. Second usually i would agree with you but this girl was just.. diffrent - you shouldve been there ! and i know that if i hadnt talked to her i wouldve regreted it. I dont really want to kick his ass... i mean she sent me the icq logs... he was such a slimy fuck all the "im so sorry you had to find out this way... but hes leaving soon so he just wanted to use that to his advantage... i hope your not mad at me now... i just didnt want you to get hurt" such a sleazy fuck....

I probably will talk to chris... yet i think i should regain her trust first cause if i promiss i wont and then do and dont tell her about it she will be mad at me since i lied to her and she will get in trouble with chris for telling me what he said...

wow that was a complicated paragraph wasnt it

How long till you go now...you should probably forget about it and move on.

then it would all go to waste though - the 4 hours i spent on the phone with her... the 2 hours trying to make her believe me.. now she does - and wants to go out with me but it will be weird now... chris is such a fuckface. ah well - was obvious that it wouldnt work out the way i wanted it to.

It's better that you never get to the point of loving her. Then you would just have to leave her there(for the US) and it would be worse than what is going on now.



Shek

true.... i know what waters im in - but since i really care for her (i guess i never shouldve asked for her number) its hard not to meet her =/

I think that was like a test of your friendship with that guy. If he's going to be an asshole like that, then he wasn't a friend in the first place. It was probably for the best that this happened, in the long run. Why don't you just see what happens with her? I mean unless you can get him to confess to her, she will have to trust her instincts on this.

stick a pipe bomb in his, "rectal pleasurer"

i had something like that once:

i liked a girl...my friend didn't...i got with this girl and we were happy together...then i notice my friend looking at her differently but i didn't say anything...she dumps me...i ask why...she says my frined told her that i was saying things about fucking her and chucking her.

the way we sorted it out was just having a fight...he hit me...i hit him...then we just went and had a beer...as that guy said before "bros before ho's"

go to this guy, tell him he's a cunt, have a fight...and things should be alright sooner or later!

This is pretty common. Bro's before Hoe's. Also, excuse the hoe part, it's a saying, it doesn't imply that I think she's a Hoe. Anywayz don't lose a friendship over a girl that u like, verbal or physical fighting over girls with a friend is just plain ignorance. Confront ur friend, how do u know he said that?? In my opinion theres three main things that brake a FRIENDship, and they are in no particular order

1.MONEY

2.DRUGS

3.WOMEN/GIRLS

dude youz got me all wrong here - He was just attracted to her as to fuck ... maybe somethin on the side - its standard player procedure I acted as his wingman in this case - he couldnt swing it so it was my turn...

Anyone disagree with the fact, that if i respect him and wait for him to make a move and he fails to do so that it is your right to try yourself ? fuck that - hes my homie but if he cant get laid there is no reason why i should share his fate...

Wow... your friend is a real bastard.

Your in a strange dilema, you wanna kill him but she said not to. ummm... I'm kinda stumped.

~TIM~ (sorry that I wasn't any help)

I just got out of the same situation. Im gona tell u how I solved it. I went up to my 'friend' and I told him to go fuck himself, coz if I cant trust him then hes not my friend (well for me trust is the basis for any friendship or relationship in general) and I explained to the girl what happened and we were back on track.

PS: wouldn't hurt if u beat ure friend up too, he deserves it for backstabbing u. I kicked the one in my case around a couple of times, hell I think I broke one of his ribs.... its up to u bro, Im sure u wouldnt wanna befriend someone who will fuck u over, u know once a thief always a thief. thats the way I see it.... (btw I have major trust problems now)

I think the chick will hurt him in more ways then i ever could... after all - girls DO gossip

you get the general idea... as for the rest - i dunno i was about to take my ass and my aluminum pipe over to his house... lucky for him my mom made me water the plants :>

Dood, when you go to america, how long are you gonna be gone, and if it is not long than you need to tell her you want to spend time with her but you have to leave in 3 weeks. And then beat the fuck out of your friend. I am in kinda the same situation and i fought my "best friend" cause he backstabbed me. And now he doesnt get near me, or try to spread rumors about me.

Naw its aight.. I think he just wanted to protect her from me hurting her feelings because he actually THOUGHT i was just in for the fuck.. at least i hope - if he proves me wrong my pipe will make it right

Its just that hes been my friend for so long.. I really dont want to have to crack his head -

ah well