OK this is the situation.. Im almost 16 years old an im going to boot camp tuesday for repeated encounters with the law... now to the point, this girl "C" an i have been friends for over a year an we've never done anything sexual, but she said were for sure gonna fuck over this weekend (its thursday right now). See, the problem is.. im a virgin an iv told her that im not a virgin (you know.. just to sound "cool" or whatever..) so my question to you guys is.. she has had sex before.. how do i play it cool an act like i know what im doing when i actually have no clue?

[This message has been edited by Noah420 (edited 07-25-2003).]

Ok, you made one HUGE mistake. You lied to a woman. This is a very grave condition you have put yourself in. Women can read these things. And when they see 'liar' stamped on your forehead, you are fucked.

Tell her the truth, ur a virgin. Maybe wait till ur both naked tho...

As for the act, don't get all tensed up about it, look forward to it. You are gonna have FUN, this is not a test or anything, this is playtime! Have fun!

ok my suggestion, watch some porn movies and try to copy what they do in the movie. if not then i would tell her the truth

I'm sure being a man you have seen a large amount of porn. Just copy those. DO NOT get nervous, if you get nervous you will just mess up.



Shek

I am going to give you my girly opinion and say dont tell her. Honestly, girls, especially that age, will tell other girls that you lied to be cool etc. Girls can be excessively bitchy, especially if you make her mad later on...its just not a good idea to try to get out of a lie. If she asks who the previous people you were with were, tell her you want to respect their privacy. It will just make you look sweet.

if you are going to try to copy porn, pick the porn carefully. If you try somethings that youll see in porn, youll look like an ass. Can you put a condom on no problem? If you go and struggle with it, it your non-virgin status will be kind of shaky. If you cant do it, go to the store, buy a box, and practice. Definatly dont get tense as ^^those boys^^ have told you. if you do, you will get messed up. Try to relax. dont worry about how long you will last etc.

Try to go for lots of foreplay. If you can impress her with your foreplay abilities, and you end up making a couple mistakes while actually having sex. Eat her out and do it well. If you read back, theres a bunch of posts on good foreplay.

When you actually go for sex, you may want to stick with missionary, or let her go on top. If she is on top, it will mean less work for you hence less chance for you to mess up, but since im guessing she is your age, its a slim chance youll get that the first time. If you go for missionary, Dont try to lie flat on her, but dont try to be sat up straight either. Ideally, its really just a happy medium, depending on the girl. It would be better to be closer to lying down, so you wont end up slipping out (for lack of a better term). Ask her what she likes with regard to thrusting. That way, you will know if she likes hard and fast or soft and slow, and that will lead to more chance to impress her.

good luck

One word, Confidence. Do not get nervous and just relax. Afterall, she IS having sex with you . That means she likes you enough to do it.

um, whats missionary? lol i know how to do it with her on top for sure, but i dont know if she'll go for that, an there is NO WAY i can be honest with her an tell her im a virgin.. pretty much the only 2 people that know im a virgin are me, an god... everyone else thinks im a fucking pimp.. :-\

Seriously, I give you props for coming here and trying to find an answer rather than just bullshitting through and hoping for the best.

I don't have much to add advice-wise to what alone said. Eat her out until you get fucking lockjaw if you have to. If you don't last long at intercourse, tell her that's why you went down on her so much- you're "not quite as experienced as everyone thinks", and you know you have to work on stamina. That'll make it look like you know your tendencies, and how could you know that if you were a virgin?

If she asks who you've slept with, just kind of look at her and say, that's kind of a rude question, isn't it? Refuse to tell her, no matter how persistent she is. Even if she discerns your (previously) virgin status, as long as you did a good job, it's not likely to matter. If that all happens before you fuck.. it's a judgment call. In some cases, the truth about your virginity will be better; in others, keeping up the lie is best. Good luck if that happens, but if she's already planning on getting laid, you shouldn't have many problems.

missionary is the basic sex position. not too much too it until you try tricky stuff. her on bottom, you on top.

dont tell her you're a virgin, some girls are weird about taking a guys virginity, they have this fucked up notion about waiting until you love someone.

Umm... copy SOME of the porn. Copy the part where the guy slides his wang into the correct orifice and then bangs at a steady pace. DO NOT copy the moneyshot. She probably won't like that.