It seems like every time I'm with my girlfriend I'll blow my load and then I hate her or see everything bad about her. Does this happen to anyone else?

Hmm, interesting.

Maybe coz you've been brought up to see sex as a negative thing. Or maybe you consider it too precious to throw around and if a girl throws it around she must be bad and not worth respect.

Hmmm, perhaps you see sex as the ultimate expression of intimacy, and anyone who has sex with someone who they don't know well enough is a fool for taking it for granted that they're shagging a good person.

I dunno I'm sure you already know the answer.

Sex is play. Play is good. Sex is good.

no its not that, we havent even had sex yet. It is just after a handjob or whatever. And i haven't been brought up to think that sex is bad, quite the contrary It's pretty much all I think about. Thanks for trying though

it means to you dont like her. if u can mess around, have sex and after you finish and still wanna be with her shes the one.

Don't worry, happens to me too, your just hopelessly psychotic, i suggest you get a gun with a lot of ammunition and kill as many people as possible before you end yourself, it will provide the greatest release you can imagine.....or not. But thats what i would do.

Sounds to me like it's time to come out of the closet.

nah it

s only happened to me when I'm w/her. Every other chick that I've made out with it never happens.

I'd seriously question whether you like this girl at all, then.

Or, to the contrary, it's possible you like her so goddamn much that it feels like you're just using her. Some people would get that intense hate towards themselves, some wouldn't.. and if you don't, where's the next likely candidate? The girl.

I would suggest getting to know the girl better before you start doing things. Other than that I am pretty sure it's all mental.



Shek

or maybe you are using her, and are only in it for sex. sex binds you, until you're done anyways, then you realize you don't like her much, until next time you want sex.

When you blow it, a bunch of stuff gets released into your bloodstream, endorphins, probably some adrenaline and blah blah. So all this stuff coming toward your brain in this huge rush tends to change your opinion on a lot of stuff sometimes, and very rapidly. Kind of before you do it you're all horny and cant think of anything else, then its over, and.. yeah.

So it's something like that.

Did that make sense at all? Oh well, I tried..

I don't know, maybe it has something to do with being sexually disinterested right after blowing your load.

quote:Don't worry, happens to me too, your just hopelessly psychotic, i suggest you get a gun with a lot of ammunition and kill as many people as possible before you end yourself, it will provide the greatest release you can imagine.....or not. But thats what i would do.

Worked for me