Here is my question.

"Are there any visible, phisical signs if a man has lost his virginity?"

The reason I'm asking this is because me and my g/f made a bet and if I win I can do whatever I want So I hope you understand the importance of this.

No there aren't any physical signs... unless the guy has herpes.

[This message has been edited by DarkFire47 (edited 07-22-2003).]

No, you can't tell if a male or female have had sex before. Either way, virginity is a state of mind, not something really physical. You consider yourself not a virgin once you penetrate but there's no physical signs to look for in either sex that would tell if they're not a virgin. There are plenty of virgins who have broken hymens.

The only thing you CAN tell is if a chick has never had sex before, and that's if her hymen is intact but there's a surgery that repairs it so that's kind of redundant too.

You can herpes from oral sex.

VERY true. virginity is mental, not psyical.

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