im kinda embarrassed to say this but im 17 and still a virgin. i have done just about everthing else. i really wanna have sex and i have oppurtunities to but im afraid that if i get in bed with the girl and its real quick. how long does sex usually last? i can see myself having sex with a girl thats not a virgin and bust within like a few minutes, which is embarrasing. i dont know any virgins, theres this girl in particular that i would like to have sex it. whats the normal size of a erected penis? im 6 inches, good or bad? i just want to know if im ready or not. girls gossip, i dont wanna be the laughing stock

please help, thanks

You probably won't last more than a few minutes, but don't let that stop you. The only real way to get past that point is to get experience.

Don't be worried about gossip, though. Use it to your advantage. Kevin Smith (the guy who wrote Clerks) said once that he got way more pussy than someone like him had any right to get in high school because he started studying female anatomy books when he was 13 and learned perfect oral sex technique. How do you think he got all those chicks? He worked the first girl, word spread, and so did the ladies.

am i normal size? also how thick should it be around the penis? also is there any techniques besides doing it a lot to make it last longer? thanks

Technique always beats size. You absolutely gotta do down on her. Just try to take it slow... If you feel like cumming, TAKE it out quickly, kiss her breasts or neck or stuff for a few seconds and put it back in. You'll do just fine believe me... practical experience is the only way to learn here.

If it consoles you any, the average penis size is about 5.5 to 6 inches. So you're just fine. Second, a typical session of sex (grant with experience) lasts I believe runs anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes.

Actually, a lot of my guy friends have told me they last an hour or so their first time. After that though, they started busting quicker.

Don't worry about how fast you'll come, we really don't care as long as it's not a recurring thing. There are sometimes my guy will bust within a couple of minutes, he used to be really ashamed of it but I told him it still felt good. Guys have their good days and bad days and any experienced woman will realize that not all guys are going to give them a good 45 minute fuck everytime. And honestly, sometimes I prefer a quicky. Don't worry about what she'll think, enjoy the moment and if you cum, ya cum! There's nothing bad about that.

Six inches sounds prefect to me. As long as you can get hard she shouldn't have any qualms. Girls do talk but that'll likely not be THAT popular of a subject. Although, if you're in high school I can see how the girls might find it just sOoO interesting to talk about! Of course we tell each other last nights sexual escapades but it's usually just brought up in conversation and left at that. Don't worry about being the laughing stalk.

If you jack off a couple of hours before you should be able to last a little longer. If you jack off like an hour or less before you might not be able to get it up! Which would suck. Don't think, just do, instincts usually take over when it comes to sex.

And I cannot stress enough how important using protection is. That used to be a given but some of the threads I've seen lately have prompted me to add this to all my posts. Condoms, pills, shots, whatever, just so she doesn't have any babies and neither of you share your diseases with each other. Use protection!

[This message has been edited by MrMojoRisin (edited 07-22-2003).]

15 to 30 minutes? average? hmm.. funny I thought that the usual average would be longer. I mean... first 60 is considered warming up... next 60 is breaking sweat and 60 after is a question of endurance.

Is there really an average? I'd think it'd depend on the couple, the mood, the day.

I've been having sex with my boyfriend for the past 2 years and cannot think of an average time we stop. Sometimes it's 5 minutes sometimes it's 2 hours (with breaks) but I don't think there is a normal, universal time for how long sex should last.

If I had to, I'd say about 15 minutes would be enough to fulfill a woman and enough time for a guy to get off. Then again, 5 minutes of sex for me is better than nothing. See, too many variable to take into consideration to make a good estimate of what's 'average'.

Size shouldnt even be an issue. If you had a needle dick thered be nothing you could do about it, so why worry. The coming thing, i didnt last long first time, and i found that if you were anxious and/or nervous it makes it a whole lot worse. The most important thing is to relax

yeah man you just hve to turn into a man there and then

go down start eating her pussy

she will no doubt cum, so you start shaggin her

goin awa... feel yourself about to cum, then slide it out

work away at her with your fingers/tongue

then when she is almost doubling over with delight ram it in and finnish her off

she WILL come back for more

read the penis FAQ and go to www.clitical.com (http://www.clitical.com)

hmmm... Well I haven't even been kissed before and I think I'd last about 2 minutes if I was lucky. :P

yeah I agree with crisis, maybe a minute or so.

wheres the penis faq at?

dude you worry too much... seriously ! im 15.. i havent gotten laid. In fact my first real date will be this week ? so ? i aint all "omg omg" of course you worry about these things but i think as long as you believe in yourself and show confidence you will get allot further then trying to be something your not. Dont try to be a sexgod the first time you have sex - thats not what its about... also get with the right girl - i dunno some guys might not care.. i do.

So just be comfortable with yourself and everything will happen...well... something will happen

We have no S&A FAQ. Why? Because were dumbasses.



Shek

stupid virgin.

Ok, you stick it in, and 2 minutes later you cum. Boo hoo. You know what I do? I DON'T STOP LONG ENOUGH TO LOSE MY HARDON!!! I just keep going. If you have to change condoms, do it fast, have the 2nd one ready so you don't have time to lose the hardon. Not losing the hardon helps, but if you do, don't panic, just start kissing up on her, suck her nipples, ect, and before you know it, you'll look back down and it's hard again. If not, then finger her. I can get faaar more screams out of my woman with my fingers than with my dick. And it's not hard either. But that is another story. Good luck

sorry i didn't put a link. http://www.totse.com/en/ego/self_improvement/164201.html