any sugestions?

She is sort of shy and if I "assault" her directly with my propossitions she will back off and hide and avoid me for weeks. However I am deeply in love with her and almost obsessed (not a stalker sort of obsession though :P). I want to try again but I don't want to intimidate her.

thanks

-Che Aragorn

try to go at her slowly. dont try to immediatly proposition her. try to become more of a friend. (whats your relationship now? if you are already friends, try to build the friendship) Its well worth it to build the friendship up and then try to make your move, or as you said, she will avoid you for weeks.

AloneAndBroken is totally correct. FRIENDSHIP BEFORE PROPOSITIONS!! It's the only way your going to get with a girl like that! And you are lucky, because the way she is can work out in your favor. That's because--while YOU are working on developing the friendship, with no pressures on her--- THE OTHER GUYS going for her will be hitting on her with the usual "assault and proposition" approach, and watching her run away! Good luck. Love, Venus.

leave her alone...

if you love something set it free..

if it comes back its yours,

if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it!

If you've already made a move, she knows your intentions, so you have to be delicate with this. On the plus side, she knows you're interested, too, so you probably don't have to worry so much about her starting to think you're the only guy in the world that doesn't want to poke her when, in fact, you do.

Be her friend, but don't bullshit about the fact you like her if it comes up. Show her that you're comfortable being friends if that's all she wants, and that you're willing to go slow. Do NOT obsess about getting with her romantically, as that will almost assuredly send everything into a tailspin. Don't even touch her unless you're certain it will be welcome. Keep in mind, however, that sometimes it's good to ask if doing so is ok ("Want a hug?").

It sounds complex, but there's no right way to achieve your goal. These are guidelines at best. As long as you can balance your desire for her at the back of your mind, never letting it take over, never forgetting it's there, you should be ok.