Ok, i have been dating my girl for about 2 months, and i got kinda mad at her and went and met about 6 different people, 1 was her friend. So i start talking to these people and a couple of them wanna date me but i feel really bad, and i dont know what to do. One wants my nuts, and she is fine. I dont cheat, so that is not an option, if this isnt already cheating.

Should i tell my girlfriend and tell the other girls to fuck off, or just live with 2 different girls, advice please.

Unless your looking for a big dramatic, messy fight, don't date two girls at the same time. They will find out and you WILL get caught. They will tell all their friends that you're bad news. It's a small world and it'll get around.

If you don't like your current g/f anymore break up with her. Wait a little while and then explore your options with other girls. Breaking up your relationship with someone just to delve into another one does not only look bad, but it's very selfish. If you have no feelings for her, break up with her.

If that was just a little fight then get over it, all couples fight. Stop talking to the other girls. If you keep in contact with them, they'll always be temptaion to you. Temptation = bad. Work out your problems with you g/f and don't dwell on past arguments.

Oh and, looks aren't everything. Just because someone looks good doesn't mean they're a going to be a good partner.

Shouldn't the question be "why did I fight with her about"

Be a man, don't just run away whenever you fight...

Talk about it and settle the problems...

But don't break up with her because of the other girl cos if..when....she finds out she'll be really hurt, then angry.....

and then it's pay back time for her

Dood you dont even know. So before you start saying shit, know what you are talking about. Be a man, shut the fuck up. I am not running away, i am asking advice, on what i should do so that i dont do something dumb. I am not cheating but i dont know if i should leave her cause we are falling apart. And she wouldn't find out cause she goes to a different school. And dont just start calling me a noob, cause when you do that you are just acting childish. so please dont try and flame me cause i made some poor decisions, taht is why i am asking advice.

Well, are things bad, or are they really falling apart?

Bad can be fixed, theoretically. Falling apart is like seeing the roof cave in over your head. Would you stay in the house? Loyalty is good, but wasting your time isn't. You should absolutely put forth every effort to keep a relationship you want intact, but if you do that (or have done that) and it's just not enough, then it may be time to move on. Judgment call.

here's my simple way of making 'life altering' decisions. take out a coin, make heads the old girlfriend, tails the new chick. flip the coin.

now answer these questions:

1)what did it land?

2)are you relieved, sad, happy, wishing it landed the other way, etc.?

use these answers to determine how you really feel, to spur a choice. forcing the hand brings your true feelings to the surface.

don't cheat...this is bad.

either tell the others to go away or dump your girlfriend and take your pick of the others.

it's as simple as that.

well do you love her?