i am too tight for my boyfriend... what do i do?

Whip out the KY jelly (or Astroglide). Use any water-based lubrication and that should help tremendously. The reason I say water based is it won't mess up the condom (other kinds do). Put on him and you.

If he fingers you before that might help you 'open up' a bit. If you are turned on enough, it shouldn't be much of a problem. Unless he's got a really big dick then I guess you'll have to get used to him.

no.. you dont understand.. nothing fits

I'm assuming that you're a virgin then.

You're just going to have to stretch it out. Have him finger you with one finger (with lube) it shouldn't be THAT tight. Can you use tampons?

I figured it out. She (as we all assumed) is actually a He. So his bf is sticking his cock in his ass. Take some anus relaxing pills. That should help.

Listen to mrmojorisin... let him finger you/finger yourself. If you are saying that nothing fits, try a pinky finger. At first just in, but then try making small and then increasing circles. Try using more than one finger.

are you sure he's on the right spot? he might be hitting your pelvic bone or something. maybe he's goin for your belly button.

First, Cola, don't be a dick. And as far as advice goes, I would just try to do as much foreplay as possible, then progress to sex or whatever you do next. It could be your hymen, in that case. A hymen is a small, thin, skin membrane covering the opening of the vagina. It is perforated to allow menstural (sp?) flow. It can become broken by not only sex, but by intense activity such as horseback riding or cycling. So if it is your hymen, go slow, and keep in mind that it will hurt, but in the end you'll do just fine.

err do they really have anus-relaxation pills? lol just wondering



and id suggest lube.. and heaps of foreplay, especially fingering and he can sort of uhh try to stretch u, but gently.

maybe vibrators or some kinda dildo might help?

Just curious, how old are you Apocalypse?

i stick by my first assertion about being too high and not hitting the target.

maybe however, a different position would help? like if you were on top, or maybe if you put your legs on his shoulders.

it will ALWAYS fit. a woman can stretch far enough for a baby's head. it can work...

i believe yes, foreplay, lubes, fingering, etc. i wanted to add: spread your legs out farther. this will open you up more and it should work easier.

ts

quote:Originally posted by bacardi:

err do they really have anus-relaxation pills? lol just wondering

Yeah, it's called Ex-Lax.

When you say nothing.. what exactly does nothing mean? Obviously I know the definition, but what have you tried? My first suggestion, if lubing and lots of foreplay isn't enough, is to try and use a smallish dildo, then start slowly working your way up until you're ready for him. Hopefully that works, but it's possible to simply be too small.. I've got a friend who's just over five feet tall that had a boyfriend with a schlong of the gods. Needless to say, there was no sexing.

As for the baby's head comment, the only time a vagina reaches that size is during birth. For sex, the ability to stretch is all that can be worked on. During the birth process, the vagina actually dilates through commands from the brain, an entirely different process, and something which isn't likely to be duplicated in bed.

Amyl Nitrate dilates the sphincter where as ex lax is more enclined to make you shit a hella lot.

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

As for the baby's head comment, the only time a vagina reaches that size is during birth. For sex, the ability to stretch is all that can be worked on. During the birth process, the vagina actually dilates through commands from the brain, an entirely different process, and something which isn't likely to be duplicated in bed.

and on top of that, have you ever seen how much pain a woman is in during the birthing process? not exactly the same reaction as sex.

ive seen a pic of a chick with 3 fists in her cunt!

are you sure u are aiming for the right hole? Perhaps you need to be better aquainted with your own anatomy first...

get a mirror and put it between your legs and have a look. You should be able to see your holes quite easily... Then have a play!

foreplay, but not for too long or else you will dry up. you have to finger yourself everynight so you can spread more. my girlfriend just went out of town for 3 weeks and i cant fit in her. i told her to finger herself while shes over there everynight. so when she gets back she will be more spread out. and if you decide to start fingering yourself on a regular basis, move up to two fingers after 2 weeks or so.

good luck

Take his dick.

This is unbelievable. I actually couldn't find an educational visualization of a vagina from the net. Anyway from top to bottom:

1) Clitoris

2) Peehole

3) Pussyhole (This is where it's supposed to go)

4) Anus

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Tell mr badaim to get the vagina instead of the thigh

pull your lips open, and fingering before hand and it should work as long as you're wet

Just have him finger you even if it really starts to hurt basically untill you bleed that should loosen up

my girl first couldn't get anything in either... the solution was relax, lubricant and PUSH (yes this will hurt)

i can help you out... take like a lava lamp that goes from small to big and just sit on it... dont use a lava lamp thats just an example... having broken glass in there would hurt

quote:Originally posted by opti7storm:

i can help you out... take like a lava lamp that goes from small to big and just sit on it... dont use a lava lamp thats just an example... having broken glass in there would hurt

Nice Logic..although could well work with something smaller and a lot of lube.

Lube Lube Lube thats what you will need and if that dont work just fuck though the pain "pain is just weakness leaving the body"

Make sure you arent going into the pee hole, and use lube and just go slow and farther in and in, till it goes halfway in then start moving in and out, or tell him to do this.

Have a nice day,

Apoxyus

Try fingering as much as possible to open up and as much forplay.It will open you up a little more.If that does not work then like stated.Break out the KY jelly.After a few times there will be no problems.

quote:Originally posted by Apocalypse:

i am too tight for my boyfriend... what do i do?



Stop dating pedophiles.

Other than getting as relaxed as possible so that you can have sex and loosen up...

If he masturbates or has an orgasm before hand earlier in the day before sex, when he is hard again and you two are ready for sex... His penis will be less rigid and hard, so that way the softer form will help out for sex. try it.

Some advice that will actually help you.

wrong hole....