Silence.

Don't go off and chat about what you have or want to manifest. Doing so will keep the power of creating in your own hands and out of everyone else's.

Example:
You want X. You are determined to get X. You speak to your friend about wanting X. Your friend thinks that X is not for you or X is for him and he will do what ever it takes to get X before you do, but tells you to keep trying. You keep trying. You notice nothing happens. You give up and move on.

In the vein of various spiritual teachings:
I guess to chat about what you want, is a declaration to the universe that you don't currently have it. This declaration is continuously made manifest as the fact that you don't have it is your most dominant thought.

^Agreed. The universe gives you what you choose. Say "I want this. . ." the universe replies--fine, go ahead, experience the state of wanting. Say "I CHOOSE this. . ." the the universe complies.

But if you maintain a state of Bliss, your X is regardless and your consciousness and that of those around silence/or part of/or belonging to has no meaning making your silence or that of those around you, in that case, in fact mistaken as a state of blissfulness.

Oh!

I never thought about it that way...

Arms you never fail to amuse me

How does one choose ?

If, for example, you choose to be good or bad, and you can distinguish between the two you, and you choose to do so in the knowledge that there may be different outcomes for which you choose then the outcome will be more likely

Subtle, but Important differance. say it out loud if you have to.

being EMO is the key to achieving whatever you want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
time to buy some mascara and eyeshadow